So that was weird...DH called me about 3:30pm and told me Dr. P was putting a case in his room. Can I just tell you how much I hate Dr. P - he is the WORST surgeon in the department for resident life, he never stops operating has been known to operate until 2am on a regular basis. Anyway, so just now (about 8:15pm) the phone rings caller ID says that its DH's hospital so I thought it was DH. A female voice asks for me and then says "Hi hon, this is the nurse working with your husband just calling to let you know its going to be after 9 but he will be home" He's never done that, he's never had a nurse call me. I was having a crappy day but that just made me feel better, made me feel like he considered my feelings enough to have a nurse call. We had a little tiff the other night about his world revolves around his work and I'm not his mother - maybe it worked, we'll see how long it lasts.