Well I had lunch with DH and he was more pissed then I when he found out about the job. But one good thing has come from it. We're going to stop his 403b contributions, he's only contributing 3% and we're going to tighten the budget with the hope that I will be able to stay home after my maternity leave. If I were to get pg this cycle it would be a Christmas baby which would mean maternity leave through the end of March. I get a sizeable bonus each March and we've decided to make our two big purchases this summer (new carpet and painting of the outside of the house) so hopefully I am about 1 year from retirement.

Of course if we have to spend much more trying to conceive this child it may not be March of '08. But all my fingers and toes are crossed.