Good Grief, Lisa...as if moving wasn't enough STRESS!!! It makes you wish you'd moved to Alaska or something doesn't it!!!
I don't know, honestly, that you owe it to these people to be "nice" about it....although I know exactly where you are coming from and I would probably be considering how I could be the least confrontational....it sounds though like they aren't very respectful of other family members either.
I don't know that you can get out of it though without being direct....but tactful. I would simply say, "that is a nice offer (to come and visit.) We would love to see you...there are several hotels nearby. Let me know when you plan on coming so I can recommend a good one to you!" (I feel sort of rude even saying that...but hey, here they are wanting to totally take advantage of you without caring at all how it affects your family and children...)
Here is another one..."that is a nice offer. Right now we are adjusting to the move and we will get in touch with you when we are ready to start having guests....." If they call back and press the issue...."we really don't have a lot of room, but we would love to see you. There is a Days Inn down the road...let us know when you arrive and get settled in!"
Honestly, I dont know if I could say that myself...I would be more inclined to write a wimpy letter and be a bit more direct....it is so much easier when you do it that way!
How far away do these relatives live? Sorry if you already mentioned it....I am just wondering if they may be planning on popping in unannounced....
Some people can be so rude!
Kristen
I don't know, honestly, that you owe it to these people to be "nice" about it....although I know exactly where you are coming from and I would probably be considering how I could be the least confrontational....it sounds though like they aren't very respectful of other family members either.
I don't know that you can get out of it though without being direct....but tactful. I would simply say, "that is a nice offer (to come and visit.) We would love to see you...there are several hotels nearby. Let me know when you plan on coming so I can recommend a good one to you!" (I feel sort of rude even saying that...but hey, here they are wanting to totally take advantage of you without caring at all how it affects your family and children...)
Here is another one..."that is a nice offer. Right now we are adjusting to the move and we will get in touch with you when we are ready to start having guests....." If they call back and press the issue...."we really don't have a lot of room, but we would love to see you. There is a Days Inn down the road...let us know when you arrive and get settled in!"
Honestly, I dont know if I could say that myself...I would be more inclined to write a wimpy letter and be a bit more direct....it is so much easier when you do it that way!
How far away do these relatives live? Sorry if you already mentioned it....I am just wondering if they may be planning on popping in unannounced....
Some people can be so rude!
Kristen
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