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My point is I absolutely come here for support, not to be lectured to. I would not be leaving for religious reasons. I would be leaving for non-support reasons. I am not trying to offend you or the great things you are trying to accomplish on your site. That's great. You go girl!!! I am not belittling your efforts by no means, but I spend way too much time here which isn't what I need to be doing. And that post to Lynn, well, it's not what she says that bothers me...it's the way she says it. It doesn't really matter to me what others believe, in a sense, because I know what I believe. I mean I cannot change attitudes and minds, only God can do that. But you have to willing to change for God to begin to re-mold you, your thinking and attitude.
Anyway, when I say I am leaving or going somewhere else for a while, for me it never means I will not return. I don't hold grudges. I let things go. That is somethng God has shown me I am capable of and it makes me happy. I don't have time to mad at everyone and mad at the world. I would only be hurting myself. I have come to a place in my life where I do what's good and pleasing to God and in turn my family is happy. I believe my husband is the head of the home and I am the heart of the home, neither of which is more important to the other.
You have emailed me? I haven't been at my email box since early yesterday afternoon. So you probably have emailed me when I haven't been around. We were out eating at Cracker Barrel with another residents' family and had a wonderful time. We have made super friends here! So, even though I may not find the support here, I am able to find it elsewhere which may not be the case for other people here depending on their circumstances.
This is how I see the forums. I believe they should be here for support 100%. No one has to "support" my beliefs, but rather listen to what I am saying and think before you speak (write). On the g/l forum, I was asking the question from a personal story that happened to be gay-related. I was not trying to offend, but I was wondering if this has happened to other gay men in the medical profession. I am aware this can happen to a heterosexual. I know this, I am not stupid...give me some credit. I am well-educated pursuing my Master's degree, etc., etc. I don't feel the posts at the g/l forum were focused on my points, but judgemental thinking..."Oh, she's a Christian stating a gay issue on the gay forum who's against gays...blah, blah, blah." I want to understand why gay people are the way they are. Isn't that what they want? to be understood? Well, here's there chance...yet no one has talked about it. I can't understand this.
Well, like I said I am here too much and since I able to find support outside of this computer, I have done this. It's a beautiful day today, I want to get out and enjoy it!! Besides, I need to work some of this weight off...ugh!!!
Have a great day and know that I appreciate all your support and kindness you have shown toward me, especially with Jonah and his birth defect. Also, I am glad you are talking to Jennifer. She's another person I miss hearing from.
Smiles,
Christy
Anyway, when I say I am leaving or going somewhere else for a while, for me it never means I will not return. I don't hold grudges. I let things go. That is somethng God has shown me I am capable of and it makes me happy. I don't have time to mad at everyone and mad at the world. I would only be hurting myself. I have come to a place in my life where I do what's good and pleasing to God and in turn my family is happy. I believe my husband is the head of the home and I am the heart of the home, neither of which is more important to the other.
You have emailed me? I haven't been at my email box since early yesterday afternoon. So you probably have emailed me when I haven't been around. We were out eating at Cracker Barrel with another residents' family and had a wonderful time. We have made super friends here! So, even though I may not find the support here, I am able to find it elsewhere which may not be the case for other people here depending on their circumstances.
This is how I see the forums. I believe they should be here for support 100%. No one has to "support" my beliefs, but rather listen to what I am saying and think before you speak (write). On the g/l forum, I was asking the question from a personal story that happened to be gay-related. I was not trying to offend, but I was wondering if this has happened to other gay men in the medical profession. I am aware this can happen to a heterosexual. I know this, I am not stupid...give me some credit. I am well-educated pursuing my Master's degree, etc., etc. I don't feel the posts at the g/l forum were focused on my points, but judgemental thinking..."Oh, she's a Christian stating a gay issue on the gay forum who's against gays...blah, blah, blah." I want to understand why gay people are the way they are. Isn't that what they want? to be understood? Well, here's there chance...yet no one has talked about it. I can't understand this.
Well, like I said I am here too much and since I able to find support outside of this computer, I have done this. It's a beautiful day today, I want to get out and enjoy it!! Besides, I need to work some of this weight off...ugh!!!
Have a great day and know that I appreciate all your support and kindness you have shown toward me, especially with Jonah and his birth defect. Also, I am glad you are talking to Jennifer. She's another person I miss hearing from.
Smiles,
Christy
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