Welcome Tornix!

I'm so glad you found us as you've come to the right site!!Many here will be able to offer advise as they are going thru the same thing you are.I wrote you a long post last nite and got knocked offline before i could add it here so i'll try to remember some of what i said.I'm Lynn,the oldest here,in my late 40's and married to Phill who is a Family doctor of 20+years who is in his 50's.We've been married 2years so i can't offer you med.school advise as i never went thru that but can offer advise on long distance relationships,marriage and love at our age..things i've learned over the years.I sure hope this site helps you to handle some of the probs your going thru.I'm going to go answer your post under Marriage now...i'll give more details and info there.Welcome again!

Lynn