I wanted to get your opinions about letting your kids go over to other children's homes for sleep overs. My sister-in-law and I were talking about this and she has a set rule that her children never sleep at any of their friends homes. She feels that with the way society has become, you just don't always know what a child's home life is actually like. She lets the kids play in the daytime but not spend the night.
I have mixed feelings about this. I have let Jacob spend the night at a couple of friend's homes and now I kind of wish I hadn't set a precedent. I like the parents and the boys but I don't always approve of the movies or video games they let their kids play. And there is that paranoia of wondering if I REALLY know the parents well enough.
I have both good and bad memories of staying with friends growing up. One of my friends was verbally abused which I didn't know until I spent the night. It was the longest night and I was scared silly. I never went again. But ... I also have had GREAT times with friends. Just curious to hear what you all think.
Robin
I have mixed feelings about this. I have let Jacob spend the night at a couple of friend's homes and now I kind of wish I hadn't set a precedent. I like the parents and the boys but I don't always approve of the movies or video games they let their kids play. And there is that paranoia of wondering if I REALLY know the parents well enough.
I have both good and bad memories of staying with friends growing up. One of my friends was verbally abused which I didn't know until I spent the night. It was the longest night and I was scared silly. I never went again. But ... I also have had GREAT times with friends. Just curious to hear what you all think.
Robin
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