HELP!! I don't know what's come over me lately, but I can't seem to stop thinking about having kids! I've got a year and a half left of my undergraduate degree, and then I'm hoping to get into med school, so there's another 4 years of medicine + 2-5 years of residency! ahh! I know that I'm still young (20), and it's not that I *really* want to get pregnant immediately (although sometimes I think that'd be nice too ), it's just that I'm not sure I want to wait so many years before starting a family. I've been married for 6 months, and my husband makes a decent salary (we're not rich by any means). So, while I'll try to control my out-of-nowhere baby fever, maybe you ladies can help me think of when the best time to start a family will be?
I've heard people say that there's *never* a good time to start a family in medicine, so in some ways I think it might be easier to start a family before I go to med school, or maybe take a year off between med school and residency? The problem with that it we'll probably be at our poorest then!! Even when I'm in residency at least I'll be making *some* income instead of just costing money.
My husband is extremely supportive of my going to medical school, and he wants to have a family, but he gets freaked out when mention that I might want to have kids sooner than 10 years from now. He's 26 now, and both of our fathers already had kids at that age, so it's really not that young!
Okay, I know what I'd say to someone else if they wrote this: just calm down, finish school, and try not to obsess about things. So I'm going to try to follow my own advice because I know 100% that I want to be a doctor AND a mom, and I need to work on attaining those goals one at a time!
So please give me your insight! I don't know how many people on here are moms and doctors themselves, but if you know any stories about how to balance it all please let me know!
Thanks so much!
I've heard people say that there's *never* a good time to start a family in medicine, so in some ways I think it might be easier to start a family before I go to med school, or maybe take a year off between med school and residency? The problem with that it we'll probably be at our poorest then!! Even when I'm in residency at least I'll be making *some* income instead of just costing money.
My husband is extremely supportive of my going to medical school, and he wants to have a family, but he gets freaked out when mention that I might want to have kids sooner than 10 years from now. He's 26 now, and both of our fathers already had kids at that age, so it's really not that young!
Okay, I know what I'd say to someone else if they wrote this: just calm down, finish school, and try not to obsess about things. So I'm going to try to follow my own advice because I know 100% that I want to be a doctor AND a mom, and I need to work on attaining those goals one at a time!
So please give me your insight! I don't know how many people on here are moms and doctors themselves, but if you know any stories about how to balance it all please let me know!
Thanks so much!
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