I haven't had time to read the whole thread. Hopefully we are still talking about if you can spoil a baby or not.
I personally don't believe that you can spoil a baby. We had a baby that always wanted to be held - day and night. As long as she was being held or in a sling - she was happy. Well, most of the time she was happy.
We've always believed that if DD was crying - it was because she needed something and that it was our job as her parents to figure out what it was and respond accordingly. That's not to say that we never let her cry, though. Sometimes, she had to be put down and cry a little so that I could shower/make lunch/get dressed/etc.
I guess that time will tell if we 'spoiled' her or not. I don't think that all of the holding and attention have negatively affected her though. If I can say so myself, she is one of the most polite and generous 2 year olds that I know!
I personally don't believe that you can spoil a baby. We had a baby that always wanted to be held - day and night. As long as she was being held or in a sling - she was happy. Well, most of the time she was happy.
We've always believed that if DD was crying - it was because she needed something and that it was our job as her parents to figure out what it was and respond accordingly. That's not to say that we never let her cry, though. Sometimes, she had to be put down and cry a little so that I could shower/make lunch/get dressed/etc.
I guess that time will tell if we 'spoiled' her or not. I don't think that all of the holding and attention have negatively affected her though. If I can say so myself, she is one of the most polite and generous 2 year olds that I know!
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