One of the benefits of being done with training and having some disposable income, is outsourcing lots of things around the house (both inside and out). Unfortunately, yesterday I realized that all this outsourcing has a new price. We have a great part-time nanny that can't sit still, so when the baby is napping or playing contently, she finds projects to do (cleaning, cooking, laundry, etc.). Most of these she does on her own, I only ask her to look after the baby and do his laundry/bottles. DD3 has now gotten used to Lucia coming a couple of times a week and doing laundry, dishes, making beds, etc. Yesterday as we were leaving for daycare, she pointed to a paper plate on the coffee table and told Lucia not to forget to throw it out. She wasn't being obnoxious about it but it still rubbed me the wrong way and rendered me speechless. All I could manage at the time was to tell her that it wasn't her place to tell Lucia what to do. But I couldn't stop thinking about it all day.
At the moment I can't stop all the outsourcing right now because we're pretty overwhelmed with the kids. How do I make sure that the kids grow up not ordering people around and learn the value of work and earning money? I fully plan on having chores for both but that's still a year or two away. But how do I convince them to clean or do laundry when they've been watching someone coming to the house to do that for years? I grew up in small apartments and my parents never outsourced anything, so I have no idea how to deal with this.
At the moment I can't stop all the outsourcing right now because we're pretty overwhelmed with the kids. How do I make sure that the kids grow up not ordering people around and learn the value of work and earning money? I fully plan on having chores for both but that's still a year or two away. But how do I convince them to clean or do laundry when they've been watching someone coming to the house to do that for years? I grew up in small apartments and my parents never outsourced anything, so I have no idea how to deal with this.
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