[MENTION=4964]Howfunitistobelovedbyyou[/MENTION]
I think 4th year is a good time to have a baby ... but we really planned ours based on our feelings of wanting to increase the size of our family. We didn't have any specific spacing desires and didn't consider training years. In retrospect, that may or may not have been right.
Our oldest two are 16 months apart. then there was a 2.5 year break until we had our third. We waited almost 5 years to have our 4th and then our 5th was born 2 years later.
For us ... this worked.
We now have a 20 and 18 1/2 year old, a 16 year old, and an 11 and 8 1/2 year old.
We had babies during internship years, first years of fellowship etc and it all worked out.
If I could go back and do it over, I'd do it just the same.
I think [MENTION=1242]diggitydot[/MENTION] is right. There really never is a perfect time. Just do what works for you!!
Kris
I think 4th year is a good time to have a baby ... but we really planned ours based on our feelings of wanting to increase the size of our family. We didn't have any specific spacing desires and didn't consider training years. In retrospect, that may or may not have been right.
Our oldest two are 16 months apart. then there was a 2.5 year break until we had our third. We waited almost 5 years to have our 4th and then our 5th was born 2 years later.
For us ... this worked.
We now have a 20 and 18 1/2 year old, a 16 year old, and an 11 and 8 1/2 year old.
We had babies during internship years, first years of fellowship etc and it all worked out.
If I could go back and do it over, I'd do it just the same.
I think [MENTION=1242]diggitydot[/MENTION] is right. There really never is a perfect time. Just do what works for you!!
Kris
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