So I'm on an annual family vacation. My actual family has its issues, but now we add in these two other families (like big families - sets of parents my parents age and their kids - plus now their kids).
So everything has been fine-ish. But tonight we finally added another family to the mix. They have a 5yo and a 2.5 yo... both are totally out of control and don't act in a way that I'm comfortable with my kids acting. (Just climbing all over very unstable furniture at restaurants, rolling on the ground while servers are trying to walk around. That's it so far - abd I know it happens with all kids to some degree, but no one even looks at them, tells them no etc. my kids are SUPEr mimicy - it's awful. We copy our 8mo cousins, our 68 yo grandfather. Like anything you do, they do. So they are usually amazing at restaurants. Amazing. (It's the French fries mostly, but I don't care).
Today was the first day they have ever had to eat out for every meal - first two were fine. Last (once these girls were added to equation... )disaster.
Any tips on how I can get my kids to not follow their lead? We are still working on time outs - I can't usually get to actually go. If I physically take them (which kills me abdominal injury wis), they are actually happy, because they got my attention I guess. Oddly both will assign themselves to time out when they haven't done anything wrong. They rarely go where they should, but they leave and start talking about their time out - the reason for it is never shared. Lol. So I don't know. I'm just so horrified fir them to be around these little girls and their super "laid back" (I'm sure I could call them other things if I wasn't trying to be nice) patents.
I know this a silly problem. It's just awkward and hard because I'm literally stuck with these people for a whole week... plus I'm a single parent z🙃. I'm not good at this.... help!
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So everything has been fine-ish. But tonight we finally added another family to the mix. They have a 5yo and a 2.5 yo... both are totally out of control and don't act in a way that I'm comfortable with my kids acting. (Just climbing all over very unstable furniture at restaurants, rolling on the ground while servers are trying to walk around. That's it so far - abd I know it happens with all kids to some degree, but no one even looks at them, tells them no etc. my kids are SUPEr mimicy - it's awful. We copy our 8mo cousins, our 68 yo grandfather. Like anything you do, they do. So they are usually amazing at restaurants. Amazing. (It's the French fries mostly, but I don't care).
Today was the first day they have ever had to eat out for every meal - first two were fine. Last (once these girls were added to equation... )disaster.
Any tips on how I can get my kids to not follow their lead? We are still working on time outs - I can't usually get to actually go. If I physically take them (which kills me abdominal injury wis), they are actually happy, because they got my attention I guess. Oddly both will assign themselves to time out when they haven't done anything wrong. They rarely go where they should, but they leave and start talking about their time out - the reason for it is never shared. Lol. So I don't know. I'm just so horrified fir them to be around these little girls and their super "laid back" (I'm sure I could call them other things if I wasn't trying to be nice) patents.
I know this a silly problem. It's just awkward and hard because I'm literally stuck with these people for a whole week... plus I'm a single parent z🙃. I'm not good at this.... help!
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