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    Ok, So I have had a mommy group (5 women) since ds was born (1 year ago) Well at 1 year all kids here go into Daycare so usually these groups dissolve or see each other rarely. Well since summer vacation we have been trying to plan a weekend meeting that just hasn't been successful. (after about 500 e-mails) anyway at one point I wrote and said I was too busy these days and the other 4 should plan it and I would come if I could. Well nothing got planned for awhile and then everyone agreed on meeting this weekend. Well the "woman" writes that she will gladly have it at her house. So no one answers her, this was yesterday. (Yeah that was rude of all of us but...) So this morning she writes a proper email saying she is not in the group longer and wishes us all the best of luck, not bitchy but a little cold.

    I feel really bad about this. And I have not given her a call or anything since summer (she lives in the building next to me). Ok the reason is that she is a mom to 3 kids and basically co-habitates with this man just to have kids. (She loves kids and is under mid-wife education) I hate hate hate this man. He has said openly that he dislikes my DH cuz he thought DH ignored him. (I'm like wtf dh doesn't have that much social skill to purposely ignore anyone..)

    1. I think it is weird she has sex with this horrid little man to have children.

    2. That man is running her into debt.

    3. The women herself is a little strange.

    I just feel bad cuz she is a good person and would do anything to help. But I cannot tolerate her man-whore who is always hanging around making snide comments.

    I don't want to tell her that I don't like him cuz I'm not a confronter. But I know she thinks it's weird that I haven't contacted her at all in months. I just want to move away from it and fast. I know I would feel better if I contacted her though. Oh what to do?

    Sorry this vent is all over the place, I just got shocked by her email!

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    I'm sorry, I'm not sure how I missed this post. How about just telling her you are very busy now, you will be moving soon, and just leave it at that.
    Luanne
    Luanne
    wife, mother, nurse practitioner

    "You have not converted a man because you have silenced him." (John, Viscount Morely, On Compromise, 1874)

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