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  • The start of the process

    OK- I'll start here in answering the original question posted.

    First, adoption law is different from state to state so it is important to do some research. Don't automatically discount domestic adoption. The trend is birth parents wanting open adoptions but in the application process you have to specify exactly what you're comfortable doing.

    My next door neighbors and my room-mate from college (Carin) are both using Gladney out of Fort Worth, TX for their adoption.

    Carin's sister and her husband adopted from China, as did some former neighbors. I think for both of them the entire process was about 10 months. You get the referral picture about mid-way through the process and then you have to travel to China to pick up the child.

    My brother's next door neighbor adopted two boys from Korea- they also had a relatively quick turnaround- and all they had to do was go to Dulles airport and pick up the baby.

    Russia- well, who knows what's going to happen since the asshat returned her kid but it was a crazy process. It was about 18 months from start to finish but 4 of those months we told them we couldn't accept a referral because of the studying for the peds boards.

    Guatemala and Vietnam are currently on hold as I understand it- there have been numerous reports of baby snatching.

    Our adoption agency is The Adoption Center of Washington- they're secular and they're small. I like them because you only have two people to work with and they spend their resources on getting and keeping really, really good staff overseas. The staff are paid very generously and you are treated very well. www.adoptioncenter.com They do adoptions from China, Russia and a couple other places.

    Jenn

    ETA: you can use an adoption agency from anywhere in the country. You'll need to have a social worker do your homestudy and that SWer must be licensed where you live but other than that, you can use any agency that you find that you click with.

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    I have heard a lot about adoptions in Ethiopia lately-
    http://ethiopia.adoption.com/
    Mom to three wild women.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Cumberland View Post
      I have heard a lot about adoptions in Ethiopia lately-
      http://ethiopia.adoption.com/
      One of Caleb's classmates was adopted from Ethopia. The same mom then adopted another boy from there as well. Both of the kids seemed to make the transition well and were not suffering overly from malnutrition issues.
      Kris

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      • #4
        Great post, Jenn!

        Kris
        ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
        ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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        • #5
          Yay!

          You contacted Adoption Center of Washington or A.S.I.A? ACW was the one we used.

          If you're still going with China then let me ask my friends who adopted from there for their recommendations. There is one book about International Adoption that I'll see if I can find. Also, if you haven't yet, subscribe to Adoptive Families magazine- it's an excellent resources and I learn something everytime it comes. I'd send you mine but I just gave them all to my next door neighbors who are in the process of a domestic adoption.

          Jenn

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          • #6
            I have no advice, but good luck!!! This is really exciting!
            Wife to PGY4 & Mother of 3.

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            • #7
              I'm really excited for you two!
              Wife to Hand Surgeon just out of training, mom to two lovely kittys and little boy, O, born in Sept 08.

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              • #8
                What a wonderful time in your lives!!
                Jen
                Wife of a PGY-4 orthopod, momma to 2 DDs, caretaker of a retired race-dog, Hawkeye!


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                • #9
                  Yay, how exciting!
                  Charlene~Married to an attending Ophtho Mudphud and Mom to 2 daughters

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                  • #10
                    Wonderful times ahead!!!!!
                    Luanne
                    wife, mother, nurse practitioner

                    "You have not converted a man because you have silenced him." (John, Viscount Morely, On Compromise, 1874)

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                    • #11
                      Congrats Lily
                      How exciting for the two of you!
                      Wife to Family Medicine attending, Mom to DS1 and DS2
                      Professional Relocation Specialist &
                      "The Official IMSN Enabler"

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                      • #12
                        I have no advice, either. Just wanted to give congratulations. So exciting!

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                        • #13
                          Congratulations, what an exciting time!

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                          • #14
                            You deserve it all!
                            Heidi, PA-S1 - wife to an orthopaedic surgeon, mom to Ryan, 17, and Alexia, 11.


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                            • #15
                              I'm late here but throwing in my YIPPEEEEE!!!!!

                              I'm very excited for you!!!
                              Flynn

                              Wife to post training CT surgeon; mother of three kids ages 17, 15, and 11.

                              “It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” —Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets " Albus Dumbledore

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