I need some serious sleep help!

[HouseofWool]

At what point did you (those "you" who have done it) cut out the night feeding? I feel that at 4.5 months DD is a bit too young but don't want to miss the window of opportunity.

Julie - I would say that she is still too young. Sophie was much closer to a year before I cut out that last night feed. Each kid is different. C slept through the night at 10 weeks and Sophie didn't until 15 months. Very LONG months!

Cheri - Are the kids still sharing a room? If they are, would A be okay with "camping" on the floor in your room for a few days so that you can work with R? If you can get him alone, I would first cut out the night feeding. With S - I would pick her up and calm her down, giving her a pacifier. Once that worked consistantly things got better. Now she occasionally wakes up and if she doesn't settle herself, I will give her a paci without doing anything else. I tell her it is still ni-night time and to lay back down. I cover her up and walk out. Most of the time it works.

[alison]

How much formula is he drinking during the day in relation to at night?

I'm glad you had a better night!