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    I need some tips. BabyK is crawling fast, cruising, getting little fingers into everything, and putting everything in his mouth. He's very handy too and takes things apart easily. For instance, he's figured out how to circumvent the cabinet locks by taking knobs off the cabinets. (I keep tightening knobs.) I also had to take down all the toilet paper because he not only unspools the paper, but removes the spindle from the paper dispenser too.

    The biggest obstacle lately has been faucets on the tub in the master bath. It's a big whirlpool bath so when he stands outside the tub, he's about eye-level to the cold-water tap. It's a lever-type tap and just way too tempting for him. He knows he's not supposed to but he cannot resist turning on the water every chance he gets. This morning, he went into the bathroom and shut the door behind him before turning on the water. . . I guess he thought I wouldn't know what he was doing in there. I've tried hiding the tap under towels, taping it down, telling him no. . . is there any devise I can use to "lock" the tap? I'm afraid he'll soon be able to reach the hot water tap or he'll be climbing on the edge of the tub and could fall in.

    Any other tips? We've already removed poisons from the lower cabinets and drawers, locked lower cabinets, child-proofed the window blinds, covered the outlets, covered the spout in his bathtub, bolted bookcases to the wall, put a gate at the top of the stairs and have moveable gates throughout the house to restrict "little people traffic" (because Moxie is a little person too!). I shut doors to any room that we are not in -- I've become like Nicole Kidman in "The Others". All the lower cabinets, drawers, and shelves in the living room are reserved for his toys. He cannot access my office at all. I'm working on putting locks on the drawers, putting hooks on swinging doors, toilet locks, and replacing the door stops (yesterday, in the 30 seconds it took for him to follow me from his room to our kitchen, he somehow stopped in the foyer, took the rubber stopper off the door stop, and popped it in his mouth).

    I don't want to live in an insane asylum where everything is bolted down and locked but I need to put some reasonable precautions in place. Any thoughts?
    Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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    Give in to the insane asylum, Ms. Kidman . . . It's short-lived. And you'll have good company.

    Sounds like your remaining problems are all in the bathroom--can you just shut that room off? Hazel can't go in our bathrooms without me.

    I think my bathtub-tap equivalent is the vertical blinds in our living room. I say "No, Hazel" and move her away, but she's probably not going to "learn" that anytime soon--it's all redirect redirect redirect for like the next year. I think the best you can do is try to minimize the number of things you have to redirect from (which you have done).
    Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
    Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

    “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
    Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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    • #3
      Oh, and I didn't even think about the rubber thingies on the doorstops! Thanks, I have to go check those right now!
      Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
      Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

      “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
      Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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      • #4
        My mom put simple slide-locks on the top of the door frame on the outside of the bathroom doors (and coincidentally, my sister's bedroom door) so she could keep A out of the bathrooms.
        They aren't too expensive, and are a solution that will last much longer once BabyK can walk, talk, and flat out defy you as an older child.
        The lock on A's door was to keep her in her room during designated "resting" time as a 2-3 year old. Just a thought.
        Wife to Family Medicine attending, Mom to DS1 and DS2
        Professional Relocation Specialist &
        "The Official IMSN Enabler"

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        • #5
          When we were trying to keep A out of the bathrooms we bought a very short baby gate that DH and I could easily step over and put it in the doorway that way the door was still open and the bathroom didn't get musty or feel wet all the time but we could still get in. Now that A is potty trained and R is mobile that doesn't work but it did then.

          I think you pretty much have everything else covered but you'll never get everything. Something you think they'll never touch will become a fascination.
          Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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          • #6
            You must have seen my FB post LOL! I've basically babygated her into our living room. It seems like the living room is getting more and more cleaned out as we find things that she can hurt herself with. I even took the coffee table out after a bad poke to the face. I was joking with Mom last night that eventually the living room will only have the TV and two bing bags.
            Wife to PGY5. Mommy to baby girl born 11/2009. Cat mommy since 2002
            "“If you don't know where you are going any road can take you there”"

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            • #7
              MIL keeps saying that the problem is that he doesn't have enough toys. He has a million toys. However, he's more interested in exploring the house than playing with toys.
              Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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              • #8
                Well.... I was going to suggest a toy: Yookidoo Flow and Fill. Dd loves it during bathtime, and it seems to satisfy the need to see running water.

                We have a fireplace, but I refuse to put up baby gates in our living room and have a main floor that looks like a toddler exploded in it. This means I have had to say NO a whole lot, but she had learned to keep her hands off the fireplace.

                How does it work with redirecting him?
                married to an anesthesia attending

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                • #9
                  Alison - the yookidoo toy looks so fun! I have been looking for something like that for my DD - it looks perfect!

                  /hijack
                  Wife to a urologist; Mom to 2 wonderful kiddos

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                  • #10
                    Redirection works for about 30 seconds or however long it takes for him to get back to the faucet.
                    Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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                    • #11
                      It's awesome. Really keeps dd from playing with the faucet, because she can sit for the entire time in front of the stream of water with her hand under it and in the little cups.
                      married to an anesthesia attending

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                      • #12
                        But he is playing with the faucet when he's not in the tub. For instance, when we are dressing in the morning he'll follow us into the bathroom and start messing with the tap.
                        Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by MrsK View Post
                          But he is playing with the faucet when he's not in the tub. For instance, when we are dressing in the morning he'll follow us into the bathroom and start messing with the tap.
                          What happens when the shower curtain is pulled in front of the faucet? Does he know to move it?
                          Wife to PGY5. Mommy to baby girl born 11/2009. Cat mommy since 2002
                          "“If you don't know where you are going any road can take you there”"

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                          • #14
                            What about letting him get his fascination out (kinda like exposure therapy for phobias)? As in, having a bath and getting to play with that faucet then? That way you could (theoretically) limited playing with it to only when he is in the tub?
                            Kris

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                            • #15
                              I would be really really careful. The water can get hot very quickly!
                              married to an anesthesia attending

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