Ok, friends. Here's the deal...my 2 1/2 year old is potty trained...well sorta. In Feb, she showed interest in using the toilet, would go when you put her on it, so I figured I'd give it a shot and if it works, it works, if not, I'll come back to it later. Well she did great. Within 2 weeks, she "got" it, albeit with me bringing her to the potty every couple of hours. She was close to 100% as far as pooping on the toilet goes.
Now, we are struggling to finish this process.. Basically, if I bring her to the bathroom every 1 1/2 - 2hrs, we are perfect. No accidents. My problem is that she shows NO interest in initiating trips to the bathroom. If I don't bring her, she'll inevitably wet her pants. She mostly tells me when she has to poop, but hardly ever tells me when she has to pee. When does the Mommy-driven toilet trip stuff end?
Also, most times I ask her to use the bathroom, she resists. She doesn't like to do anything I suggest (terrible two's I guess). So about 6-8 times a day we have this power struggle bathroom situation in which I end up threatening to put her in time out if she doesn't use the toilet and she finally agrees and goes. It is very dysfunctional on both ends.
What gives? I welcome any comments or suggestions. I am at a loss. I don't want to put her back in diapers because she has come this far, we just need her to to take the final steps and start initiating bathroom trips. Oh, and I should mention, she only has accidents at home - not when we are out an about (she is one of those kids who enjoys checking out public bathrooms) or at the babysitters. Aaarrgghh.
Now, we are struggling to finish this process.. Basically, if I bring her to the bathroom every 1 1/2 - 2hrs, we are perfect. No accidents. My problem is that she shows NO interest in initiating trips to the bathroom. If I don't bring her, she'll inevitably wet her pants. She mostly tells me when she has to poop, but hardly ever tells me when she has to pee. When does the Mommy-driven toilet trip stuff end?
Also, most times I ask her to use the bathroom, she resists. She doesn't like to do anything I suggest (terrible two's I guess). So about 6-8 times a day we have this power struggle bathroom situation in which I end up threatening to put her in time out if she doesn't use the toilet and she finally agrees and goes. It is very dysfunctional on both ends.
What gives? I welcome any comments or suggestions. I am at a loss. I don't want to put her back in diapers because she has come this far, we just need her to to take the final steps and start initiating bathroom trips. Oh, and I should mention, she only has accidents at home - not when we are out an about (she is one of those kids who enjoys checking out public bathrooms) or at the babysitters. Aaarrgghh.
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