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  • We've got a biter

    N got her first tooth 6 weeks ago and has been biting me since the moment it came through. She now has another one next to it, both on the bottom.

    At first it wasn't so bad, but now I get bit in 75% of the nursing sessions. I can tell some of it is definitely related to teething, but she also does it out of frustration and because she thinks my reaction is funny. I originally tried the "flick the cheek, say no, and pull her off" method, but that is the reaction she finds funny. She'll laugh and bite me again! Then I tried just trying to ignore the biting altogether, but she just keeps chomping down harder and harder. Removing her and completely ending the session is the only thing I have had some success with, but doesn't work well when I'm trying to get her to bed.

    She doesn't bite when she is really hungry and "gets to it," so to speak, while nursing. Or if she is just in a calm, not playful mood.

    Any other ideas? (besides weaning) I shudder to think what she can do when the top teeth come in. I have bite marks on my boob.
    Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.




  • #2
    I'd just end the meal. But I am in the toddler-mode of thinking: boundaries are everything. Good luck! She isn't too young to understand that if she does it, milk gets CUT OFF.
    Last edited by scrub-jay; 07-06-2012, 11:31 AM.
    Wife to PGY4 & Mother of 3.

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    • #3
      End the meal. Don't give a bottle! Use Motrin etc as needed.
      Mom of 3, Veterinarian

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Michele View Post
        End the meal. Don't give a bottle! Use Motrin etc as needed.
        This.
        Veronica
        Mother of two ballerinas and one wild boy

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        • #5
          Dr. Sears recommends pushing them into you - basically so they suffocate and release...
          Jen
          Wife of a PGY-4 orthopod, momma to 2 DDs, caretaker of a retired race-dog, Hawkeye!


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          • #6
            I think part of it might be that she gets frustrated having to wait for a let down vs the immediate flow of the bottle. I'll try the suggestions though!

            Those suckers are like razors!
            Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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            • #7
              We're having the same issue here. She's cut the bottom two teeth in the last week. I yelled last night and scared the crap out of her (yelled in shock, not AT her).
              Married to a Urology Attending! (that is an understated exclamation point)
              Mama to C (Jan 2012), D (Nov 2013), and R (April 2016). Consulting and homeschooling are my day jobs.

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              • #8
                K2 tends to bite while nursing if a new tooth has come in - like he is uncertain so the boundaries or has to get used to the new feel. Yelping and taking him off seems to do the trick.
                Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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                • #9
                  So we had a ped appt today and I brought it up. The ped actually recommended forcefully saying "No" and stopping the nursing session, even if it made her cry. I heard that can cause a nursing strike, though I kind of doubt that would happen with N? Girl likes to eat too much. Thoughts?
                  Last edited by SoonerTexan; 07-06-2012, 02:54 PM.
                  Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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                  • #10
                    I always said no (or ow!) pretty loudly, and my boys seemed to get the message. They all nursed for a year+, so there wasn't a negative effect. It wasn't thought out, just a natural reaction!
                    Wife of an OB/Gyn, mom to three boys, middle school choir teacher.

                    "I don't know when Dad will be home."

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by SoonerTexan View Post
                      So we had a ped appt today and I brought it up. The ped actually recommended forcefully saying "No" and stopping the nursing session, even if it made her cry. I heard that can cause a nursing strike, though I kind of doubt that would happen with N? Girl likes to eat too much. Thoughts?
                      I can't imagine her turning down food if she's hungry so I doubt it would cause a strike.
                      Veronica
                      Mother of two ballerinas and one wild boy

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                      • #12
                        I totally said no loudly!! My kids quickly learned to "nurse nice".
                        Mom of 3, Veterinarian

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                        • #13
                          At one point, I put DS down and said, "No bite." He cried for a little bit, but that's how we roll.
                          I don't see any signs of psychological damage... yet.
                          Wife to Family Medicine attending, Mom to DS1 and DS2
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                          • #14
                            I finally went all out, "NO! We don't bite mama" on her. She still laughed at me. But things have been better the past few days...
                            Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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                            • #15
                              Oh... and get used to it (nursing or otherwise). Teething w/toddlers is FUN. -_-
                              Wife to PGY4 & Mother of 3.

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