I'm having difficulty with DD1 (9 yo) and her extracurriculars lately. She's dug her heels in about practicing the piano. I've been pretty even about my response, but have agreed to let her quit piano after this years recital. I can't keep listening to her complain everyday. She's told me that it's because I picked the piano, but she wants to play the violin. She started violin this month. She's enjoying it, but it's just the beginning. She does not have natural perseverance and lacks the self discipline to practice when "it's not fun." I'm having difficulty drawing the line between pushing her into something she doesn't want to do vs. teaching her self-discipline and perseverance. It's definitely a personality thing, because I don't see this at all in her younger sister who complains at times, but once she starts she focuses and works on it.
Now she wants to quit ballet too. Says she hates it because it's no fun and the teacher is always telling you what to do. She prefers to free dance and chroegraph her own moves. We've had the talk about how learning to dance is like learning how to read. You have to learn the letters and rules of spelling before you can start writing your own stories that people can enjoy. She'd rather stay home and play with her sibs, but I also know that in a few years she will not be as interested in playing anymore. She's finishing 3rd grade.
I'm really not sure what to do...?
Now she wants to quit ballet too. Says she hates it because it's no fun and the teacher is always telling you what to do. She prefers to free dance and chroegraph her own moves. We've had the talk about how learning to dance is like learning how to read. You have to learn the letters and rules of spelling before you can start writing your own stories that people can enjoy. She'd rather stay home and play with her sibs, but I also know that in a few years she will not be as interested in playing anymore. She's finishing 3rd grade.
I'm really not sure what to do...?
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