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  • Thoughts on raising teenagers

    <sigh>
    In my dreams I run with the Kenyans.

  • #2
    It's hard?
    Heidi, PA-S1 - wife to an orthopaedic surgeon, mom to Ryan, 17, and Alexia, 11.


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    • #3
      Originally posted by Vanquisher View Post
      It's hard?
      Word. Both of ours are currently Amish.

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      • #4
        ? I don't see the original post; was it deleted?
        Married to a peds surgeon attending

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        • #5
          Is this a question or comment ?
          Tara
          Married 20 years to MD/PhD in year 3 of MFM fellowship. SAHM to five wonderful children (#6 due in August), a sweet GSD named Bella, a black lab named Toby, and 1 guinea pig.

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          • #6
            I don't wanna. I'm not sure I am that strong.
            Kris

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            • #7
              Originally posted by weeniegeniewife View Post
              ? I don't see the original post; was it deleted?
              Me too.
              Also, I have the fear when thinking about this. I'm a big weenie, though.


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              Wife to Family Medicine attending, Mom to DS1 and DS2
              Professional Relocation Specialist &
              "The Official IMSN Enabler"

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Thirteen View Post
                Me too.
                Also, I have the fear when thinking about this. I'm a big weenie, though.


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                I promise that there is much more good than bad. We currently have three in that age group (we don't call them teens) and much of it is a really great experience (even the difficult stuff).
                Tara
                Married 20 years to MD/PhD in year 3 of MFM fellowship. SAHM to five wonderful children (#6 due in August), a sweet GSD named Bella, a black lab named Toby, and 1 guinea pig.

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                • #9
                  Love my teens! They do get hormonal, but we are having a great time with them!
                  Veronica
                  Mother of two ballerinas and one wild boy

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                  • #10
                    My teen is really, really great 95% of the time. I can see my daughter being more difficult when she's older though.

                    We haven't had to deal with dating yet, and we're still a year from driving, but my son is pretty damned responsible. The only issues I have with him are keeping his room clean and making sure he takes his medication to keep his depression at bay. The depression stuff was/is heart wrenching.

                    I also play taxi and have to drive him everywhere! It's getting old. So, in a way, I'm kind of anxious for him to get his license.
                    Heidi, PA-S1 - wife to an orthopaedic surgeon, mom to Ryan, 17, and Alexia, 11.


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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by diggitydot View Post
                      Word. Both of ours are currently Amish.
                      So is my DD right now.
                      Married to a peds surgeon attending

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                      • #12
                        Our teens are pretty great kids. They just occasionally do REALLY stupid shit, which is entirely normal.

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                        • #13
                          It is challenging....but my experience is that my kids have the same personalities.....just the negative aspects are *really* amplified at times since they've become teens. My oldest has always been my hardest kid and he still is. If I could go back (and I am glad I don't have to....), I would say "I love you" more often and take every opportunity to encourage them and compliment them. Their peers, teachers, and their own hyper-self-awareness (is that a word? lol) will make sure the negatives are recognized. That's my drive-by 2 cents.
                          Wife of an OB/Gyn, mom to three boys, middle school choir teacher.

                          "I don't know when Dad will be home."

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                          • #14
                            To be clear, my original comment was literally <sigh>

                            We're just going through some growing pains. All of us. He is a fantastic kid, but he is VERY 13. It is hard to keep it in perspective sometimes. It is mostly good but there is a piece of it that drives me up a wall. My words aren't penetrating right now so I'm having to play the heavy. I dislike playing the heavy.
                            In my dreams I run with the Kenyans.

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                            • #15
                              Don't you think there is something about the end of the school year that makes young teens just act stupid? The few stupid thing I did all happened in April it seemed like.
                              Wife to PGY5. Mommy to baby girl born 11/2009. Cat mommy since 2002
                              "“If you don't know where you are going any road can take you there”"

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