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  • After yesterday...

    ...I've decided I can juggle anything this house throws at me!

    The kids and I were outside playing in the yard yesterday afternoon and I'm thinking - jeez this yard needs mowed when is DH going to get around to that? Then I went in the house to get something and the smoke detectors were ALL going off - they are wired and when one goes off they all go off. I immediately freaked out and started looking everywhere for smoke - nothing. I checked the CO detectors they were fine. So I tried to find the non emergency number for the fire department and couldn't find one so I had to call 911. What else was I supposed to do? The dispatcher was a jerk but the two firemen that came out were fabulous. They tested them and figured out that one was bad, they were very very nice.

    So the kids and I climbed in the car and went to the hardware store and bought 3 new fire detectors, of course the plugs weren't he same so I had to unwire the old plugs, rewire the new plugs and install all 3 of them. So while R was in his highchair eating dinner I did that and then after putting him to bed and feeding A and putting her to bed I changed two light bulbs high in the garage that had been out for quite some time and then I mowed the lawn.

    I was never more grateful for the way my parents raised me and I called and told them so.

    Monday night, DH got home around 9 and went back in around 10. Last night he got home about 11:30 and left about 6:30.

    This year is going to be a challenge but I'm bound and determined to figure it out and do things for myself because its obvious DH won't be around.
    Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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    Oh and I've been thinking for a while our high traffic areas need to be cleaned so I called and scheduled a carpet cleaner for next week - I feel liberated because I'm doing all of this myself and now waiting for DH to make a decision!
    Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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    • #3
      A liberated, intelligent, DIY woman is a happy woman.
      (The majority of the tools we have are mine).

      Thanks for sharing with us, and "go you!"
      Wife to Family Medicine attending, Mom to DS1 and DS2
      Professional Relocation Specialist &
      "The Official IMSN Enabler"

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      • #4
        I've just got to say, you rock! It sounds like its going to be a tough and exhausting year, but at the same time, educational and fulfilling in some ways. I am glad that it turned out to be faulty detectors and not anything worse!
        -L.Jane

        Wife to a wonderful General Surgeon
        Mom to a sweet but stubborn boy born April 2014
        Rock Chalk Jayhawk GO KU!!!

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        • #5
          Go, Superwoman! Seriously impressive. It sounds like you have a great approach to a tough year.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by SuzySunshine View Post
            Oh and I've been thinking for a while our high traffic areas need to be cleaned so I called and scheduled a carpet cleaner for next week - I feel liberated because I'm doing all of this myself and now waiting for DH to make a decision!
            Good for you. This is how I operate all the time (honestly it's occasionally to our detriment relationship-wise, like when I got quotes for / greenlighted $1000 worth of landscaping w/o even mentioning it to him). I've got to survive -- no -- thrive -- on my own at least 80% of the time, so I'm not going to dither around.

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            • #7
              You go girl. This is why I think the bon bon eating image of the "doctor's wife" is so damn funny. Maybe second wives - if they are of the "trophy variety". (Sorry to all the second wives out there!!! I know none of ours are trophy wives!) First wives that live through training are steel magnolias. They can do it all and they have done it all. I love that. I'm picturing you as a modern day Rosie the Riveter.
              Angie
              Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
              Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)

              "Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"

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              • #8
                This really is a huge accomplishment!

                This is one of the silver linings of medicalspousedom. I feel so much more capable than I ever would have in a different life.
                In my dreams I run with the Kenyans.

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                • #9
                  Good for you! I'm not sure I would have known how to wire/re-wire the alarms, I'm impressed!

                  Today (at six month's pregnant, I might add...!) I've already swept and mopped all the floors in the house, installed and hung a bathroom mirror, and wrestled a 70-pound box (with an unassembled bench inside) into my car that needs to be returned to the store. Next up: priming/painting the quarter-round border for the vinyl flooring that will be installed in our basement next week...

                  If I waited until DH got around to doing things they'd never get done, so I end up doing most things myself!
                  ~Jane

                  -Wife of urology attending.
                  -SAHM to three great kiddos (2 boys, 1 girl!)

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                  • #10
                    Congratulations!!! You may one day discover that Lowes and Home Depot are better than any shopping mall!
                    Luanne
                    wife, mother, nurse practitioner

                    "You have not converted a man because you have silenced him." (John, Viscount Morely, On Compromise, 1874)

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                    • #11
                      And you did all of that with two little ones as well! Good for you! (Sorry its going to be sucky year but it sounds like you've got it all under control!)
                      Loving wife of neurosurgeon

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                      • #12
                        I did have to call my dad to ask him one question about the wiring but I knew how the caps and all of that worked - I don't remember when my dad taught me that, of course it may have just been watching him fix things when I was a kid. He built his own house so he's always a resource.

                        DH didn't even know about the firemen until about 9pm after he read the text I had sent him 4+ hours earlier.
                        Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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                        • #13
                          Rock on!! You DIY folks all inspire me to better
                          Danielle
                          Wife of a sexy Radiologist and mom to TWO adorable little boys!

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                          • #14
                            Go, Cheri!! SUPERGIRL!

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                            • #15
                              You rock Cheri! Way to be a great example (to us...to A...to R)!! You are truly an inspiration.
                              Wife to PGY4 & Mother of 3.

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