Any runners?

[radwife]

I totally understand what you mean. For the past 4 years of med school I financially supported both of us, so I always have a hard time when he says I shouldn't buy something. I try hard to bite my tongue and not say "but I'm the one making a paycheck" because more than once it's slipped out and he fires back with "well, when I'm making a paycheck it won't be yours to spend." That usually shuts me up

You're totally right though, with how much I've paid out for 2 big relocations and with more expenses to come what's a couple entrance fees here and there??