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Cleaning House: A mom's 12-month experiment to rid her home of youth entitlement

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  • Cleaning House: A mom's 12-month experiment to rid her home of youth entitlement

    I came across this book while surfing Pinterest (I think) and decided to pick it up at the library ('cuz I'm cheap). http://www.amazon.com/Cleaning-House.../dp/0307730670

    Is Your Home Out of Order?

    Do your kids expect clean folded clothes to magically appear in their drawers? Do they roll their eyes when you suggest they clean the bathroom? By racing in to make their lives easy, have you unintentionally reinforced your children’s belief that the world revolves around them?

    Dismayed at the attitude of entitlement that had crept into her home, Kay Wyma got some attitude of her own. Cleaning House is her account of a year-long campaign to introduce her five kids to basic life skills and the ways meaningful work can increase earned self-confidence and concern for others.

    With irresistible humor and refreshing insights, Kay candidly details the ups and downs of equipping her kids for such tasks as making beds, refinishing a deck chair, and working together. The changes that take place in her household will inspire you to launch your own campaign to dislodge your kids from the center of their universe.

    “If you want your children to be more responsible, more self-assured, and more empathetic, Cleaning House is for you.”
    —Jim Daly, president of Focus on the Family
    Even though my son is 9, I totally see myself in some of the things she describes. She basically states that by doing too much for her kids, she doesn't equip them for their adult life. Which seems like a bit of a "well, duh" type moment, but it is really easy to fall into the trap of doing ourselves because it is faster and easier.
    Kris

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    My boys are 1 and 2yo and they help with chores. They both know how to take off their shoes and put them in a bin by the front door, they help pick up toys and throw trash in the can, they put their dirty clothes in the hamper and diapers in the pail at bath time. My 2yo also brings his dishes to the sink, helps load the dishwasher, wipes the pottyseat if he sprinkles, and helps put away clean clothes and lay out clothes for himself and his brother. They are both encouraged to help eachother finish chores and if the 2yo whines and demands that I do something he knows how to do, I gently tell him that if he wants it done now, he'll have to do it himself. Otherwise, he must ask nicely and wait patiently while mommy completes her task. Helping with chores gives them a sense of accomplishment and cooperation while teaching them life skills.
    Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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      Sounds great, let us know what you think or what you like!

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      Loving wife of neurosurgeon

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