Gosh, if I keep posting to this site, I'll fail out of school and then we can forget this whole discussion
Yeah, my BF's been preparing me for the worst basically since the day I met him. We even broke up once because he thought this was just going to be too hard to weather. But, we just have something undeniably special and we can't imagine not being with each other in the long run.
That said, I'm glad I'm in a different part of the country for his first year and a half of residency. Not to be harsh, but I know I'd be miserable living with him right now (it would be a different story had we known each other for longer--we'd only been together 9 mos. when he left for residency). It's hard being apart, but we talk every day, and I'm getting to pursue a masters in a field that excites me, which will hopefully translate into a job in his city when I graduate.
The scary thing will be moving to a small midwestern city where I don't know anybody but him. If I get a good job, I know I'll make friends easily, and with him working all the time, I'll be able to put in a lot of time at work.
Thanks for reading my posts and responding, everybody! Prior to finding this site, I had nowhere to figure out what other people are going through.
Cheri, is your hubby at U of M? If so, is there a network of spouses/families in the surg. program there?
P.S. Please come read my blog--I'm desperate for visitors and comments right now as I try to get it off the ground! (see below)
Yeah, my BF's been preparing me for the worst basically since the day I met him. We even broke up once because he thought this was just going to be too hard to weather. But, we just have something undeniably special and we can't imagine not being with each other in the long run.
That said, I'm glad I'm in a different part of the country for his first year and a half of residency. Not to be harsh, but I know I'd be miserable living with him right now (it would be a different story had we known each other for longer--we'd only been together 9 mos. when he left for residency). It's hard being apart, but we talk every day, and I'm getting to pursue a masters in a field that excites me, which will hopefully translate into a job in his city when I graduate.
The scary thing will be moving to a small midwestern city where I don't know anybody but him. If I get a good job, I know I'll make friends easily, and with him working all the time, I'll be able to put in a lot of time at work.
Thanks for reading my posts and responding, everybody! Prior to finding this site, I had nowhere to figure out what other people are going through.
Cheri, is your hubby at U of M? If so, is there a network of spouses/families in the surg. program there?
P.S. Please come read my blog--I'm desperate for visitors and comments right now as I try to get it off the ground! (see below)
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