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  • The Twitter Trap

    I'm sure this is all over the place, but I thought it would be interesting to discuss here.

    http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/22/ma...trap.html?_r=1

    The Twitter Trap
    By BILL KELLER
    Last week my wife and I told our 13-year-old daughter she could join Facebook. Within a few hours she had accumulated 171 friends, and I felt a little as if I had passed my child a pipe of crystal meth.

    I don’t mean to be a spoilsport, and I don’t think I’m a Luddite. I edit a newspaper that has embraced new media with creative, prizewinning gusto. I get that the Web reaches and engages a vast, global audience, that it invites participation and facilitates — up to a point — newsgathering. But before we succumb to digital idolatry, we should consider that innovation often comes at a price. And sometimes I wonder if the price is a piece of ourselves.

    Joshua Foer’s engrossing best seller “Moonwalking With Einstein” recalls one colossal example of what we trade for progress. Until the 15th century, people were taught to remember vast quantities of information. Feats of memory that would today qualify you as a freak — the ability to recite entire books — were not unheard of.

    Then along came the Mark Zuckerberg of his day, Johannes Gutenberg. As we became accustomed to relying on the printed page, the work of remembering gradually fell into disuse. The capacity to remember prodigiously still exists (as Foer proved by training himself to become a national memory champion), but for most of us it stays parked in the garage.

    Sometimes the bargain is worthwhile; I would certainly not give up the pleasures of my library for the ability to recite “Middlemarch.” But Foer’s book reminds us that the cognitive advance of our species is not inexorable.

    My father, who was trained in engineering at M.I.T. in the slide-rule era, often lamented the way the pocket calculator, for all its convenience, diminished my generation’s math skills. Many of us have discovered that navigating by G.P.S. has undermined our mastery of city streets and perhaps even impaired our innate sense of direction. Typing pretty much killed penmanship. Twitter and YouTube are nibbling away at our attention spans. And what little memory we had not already surrendered to Gutenberg we have relinquished to Google. Why remember what you can look up in seconds?

    Robert Bjork, who studies memory and learning at U.C.L.A., has noticed that even very smart students, conversant in the Excel spreadsheet, don’t pick up patterns in data that would be evident if they had not let the program do so much of the work.

    “Unless there is some actual problem solving and decision making, very little learning happens,” Bjork e-mailed me. “We are not recording devices.”

    Foer read that Apple had hired a leading expert in heads-up display — the transparent dashboards used by pilots. He wonders whether this means that Apple is developing an iPhone that would not require the use of fingers on keyboards. Ultimately, Foer imagines, the commands would come straight from your cerebral cortex. (Apple refused to comment.)

    “This is the story of the next half-century,” Foer told me, “as we become effectively cyborgs.”

    Basically, we are outsourcing our brains to the cloud. The upside is that this frees a lot of gray matter for important pursuits like FarmVille and “Real Housewives.” But my inner worrywart wonders whether the new technologies overtaking us may be eroding characteristics that are essentially human: our ability to reflect, our pursuit of meaning, genuine empathy, a sense of community connected by something deeper than snark or political affinity.

    The most obvious drawback of social media is that they are aggressive distractions. Unlike the virtual fireplace or that nesting pair of red-tailed hawks we have been live-streaming on nytimes.com, Twitter is not just an ambient presence. It demands attention and response. It is the enemy of contemplation. Every time my TweetDeck shoots a new tweet to my desktop, I experience a little dopamine spritz that takes me away from . . . from . . . wait, what was I saying?

    My mistrust of social media is intensified by the ephemeral nature of these communications. They are the epitome of in-one-ear-and-out-the-other, which was my mother’s trope for a failure to connect.

    I’m not even sure these new instruments are genuinely “social.” There is something decidedly faux about the camaraderie of Facebook, something illusory about the connectedness of Twitter. Eavesdrop on a conversation as it surges through the digital crowd, and more often than not it is reductive and redundant. Following an argument among the Twits is like listening to preschoolers quarreling: You did! Did not! Did too! Did not!

    As a kind of masochistic experiment, the other day I tweeted “#TwitterMakesYouStupid. Discuss.” It produced a few flashes of wit (“Give a little credit to our public schools!”); a couple of earnestly obvious points (“Depends who you follow”); some understandable speculation that my account had been hacked by a troll; a message from my wife (“I don’t know if Twitter makes you stupid, but it’s making you late for dinner. Come home!”); and an awful lot of nyah-nyah-nyah (“Um, wrong.” “Nuh-uh!!”). Almost everyone who had anything profound to say in response to my little provocation chose to say it outside Twitter. In an actual discussion, the marshaling of information is cumulative, complication is acknowledged, sometimes persuasion occurs. In a Twitter discussion, opinions and our tolerance for others’ opinions are stunted. Whether or not Twitter makes you stupid, it certainly makes some smart people sound stupid.

    I realize I am inviting blowback from passionate Tweeters, from aging academics who stoke their charisma by overpraising every novelty and from colleagues at The Times who are refining a social-media strategy to expand the reach of our journalism. So let me be clear that Twitter is a brilliant device — a megaphone for promotion, a seine for information, a helpful organizing tool for everything from dog-lover meet-ups to revolutions. It restores serendipity to the flow of information. Though I am not much of a Tweeter and pay little attention to my Facebook account, I love to see something I’ve written neatly bitly’d and shared around the Twittersphere, even when I know — now, for instance — that the verdict of the crowd will be hostile.

    The shortcomings of social media would not bother me awfully if I did not suspect that Facebook friendship and Twitter chatter are displacing real rapport and real conversation, just as Gutenberg’s device displaced remembering. The things we may be unlearning, tweet by tweet — complexity, acuity, patience, wisdom, intimacy — are things that matter.

    There is a growing library of credible digital Cassandras who have explored what new media are doing to our brains (Nicholas Carr, Jaron Lanier, Gary Small and Gigi Vorgan, William Powers, et al.). My own anxiety is less about the cerebrum than about the soul, and is best summed up not by a neuroscientist but by a novelist. In Meg Wolitzer’s charming new tale, “The Uncoupling,” there is a wistful passage about the high-school cohort my daughter is about to join.

    Wolitzer describes them this way: “The generation that had information, but no context. Butter, but no bread. Craving, but no longing.”

    Bill Keller is the executive editor of The New York Times.
    -Ladybug

  • #2
    I'm not on twitter so I can't speak to that one - I really feel like it is a form of voyeurism because you can follow people and know what is going on with them constantly.

    I feel like facebook is the same but not to the same extent. I love that I have been able to catch up with very old friends that we have lost touch with as we moved around with this medical life. I love that I will be able to keep up with my friends from here after we leave in a month but at the same time I feel like it diminishes those relationships because I'll admit I send someone an e-mail or pick up the phone a lot less then I used to.

    I definitely feel like my children's lives will be so much different socially then mine was. I am currently reading "The Shallows: What the Internet is doing to our brains" by Nicholas Carr and it really is very interesting what they have learned about how our brains have changed in the last 20 years because information is so readily available to us.
    Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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    • #3
      I looked at that book Cheri and I'll Be interested to hear if you think it's worth the read. It sounds like there are also some refutes to his claims. I would type more but I'm on my...iPad. Lol. You don't know how long this took me with untold autocorrects. Talk about about a communication barrier that I have a conflicted, intense love affair with. I don't post because its too hard to type...but yet I love it...and then I hate it. I'll share more later when I'm on my iMac that I'm having an affair with.
      -Ladybug

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      • #4
        First great article! Thank you for posting it.

        I have mixed feelings about social networking such as facebook and twitter. Before that it seems everyone was on AOL, yahoo messenger and MySpace to connect and before that I had penpals in other countries and we exchanged what is now referred to as snail mail. We have agreed to still do that because there is something personal about hand written letters as compared to a hasty digital message shot off into cyber space. Though stamps are becoming more and more expensive which is directly related due to the decline in business thanks to the digital age and things like junk mail in your inbox instead of you mail box outside your house.

        At first it was addictive and inviting and like some have said a form of voyeurism or to be let into someones life a little bit more with whom you would perhaps not be friends with as intimately in real life. I felt facebook was more comfortable than MySpace because it was a simple clean format where unlike with MySpace I didn't come across someone's glaringly ugly html page and get blasted with their music of choice. Then facebook started having all these zynga games you could play to occupy idle time and that became an addicting time waster thus coining the play on words "space book". Then other play on words with social networking giants were MyFace and people were told they were narcissistic because their pages were all about them and they loved talking about themselves and posting hundreds of pictures of themselves to look at themselves online. Promoting their last photo albums with facebook status messages saying "New Album Up!" To be told we're narcissistic for participating in social networking actively was a little unsettling. Then facebook updated themselves with a status feed similar to twitter and you could even connect the two so that by updating your twitter feed you automatically broadcast to your facebook status.

        Then came the reports that employers used facebook and other social networking sites to find out information about you so don't post anything you would want them to know about you or that could get you fired or in some cases even expelled from school. It began to take on a new level of responsibility by users that perhaps wasn't expected thus making it not really a reflection of who someone is but a reflection of multiple personalities of one person. Now there are reports coming out that if you don't have any of these online profiles that it is also a bad thing because you basically become non-existent to an employer today because that is how they garner much information about a potential employee. Not to mention that law enforcement has access to your online profiles just like you have access to them where they can see anything you think you want to keep private and they can read your messages between people. The reports I've seen have said since the patriot act they've basically setup shadow boxes that collect everything passing through the main hubs of the internet's communication centers. It's like making a carbon copy and collecting it for there data. I think I've learned too much in college to feel comfortable about technology.

        It certainly has it's benefits with staying in touch with others but then there are the sides of it that we don't necessarily agree to signing up for. In college I had a facebook and twitter and they were useful for connecting with classmates for notes and staying in touch for study groups or just a general way of communication versus phone or email. After college it's become limiting for me not to have a facebook or other social networking sites because I can't promote my work or if I need to garner information on someone else I can't have access without signing up again which I don't want to do. The technology keeps changing every fews months and it seemed I had to keep checking my privacy settings. Then I started seeing my friends in adds on my profile and I really didn't feel comfortable anymore using these kinds of sites when they kept changing and I couldn't keep up with what they were doing next or rather didn't want to keep up with it anymore.

        It also had me reflecting on the nature of relationships. Some friends I'd had long ago during high school were on my facebook but the friendship had changed because we had changed since them so it left me questioning why stay friends on this site then? IRL we wouldn't be as in touch either and do I really care to see what is happening in their life now when they don't really use their webpage either. Then people would start different profiles for different sets of friends and it became obvious you're either a close intimate friend or one of those friends they want to keep at arms length. That left me wondering am I supposed to be offended at the classification of my friendship with them? If it's not a quality friendship then why are we investing these superficial cyber time together? Then there were profiles with thousands of friends some for gaming and some for people who treated their profile like a fan page. When they got to 5,000 friends they realized that they then had to start a fan page because they'd reached their limit of actual friends they could add.

        I've probably already shared way too much but I could go on even further about my internal conflict of trying to find balance in the world of the digital age. My online experience gets way more complicated. So to simplify my complications I did away with facebook and twitter and some other online things though I know I may need the tools again for the future because of my work and the way this world is trending for now.
        PGY4 Nephrology Fellow

        Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there.

        ~ Rumi

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        • #5
          Hi! You have hit upon the cause of my personal purgatory: social networks and connectivity.

          On one hand, clearly I have waaaay overshared on the internet vis a vis this website. I have formed some fabulous life long friendships IRL because of it. I have found some kindred spirits. I have also wasted way too much of my life overanalyzing things from people I "know" here. It is a sad waste of life.

          I don't twitter. Facebook makes me crazy. I have 173 'friends' and I'd like to cut it to about half. It is meaningless chatter. I can't publish anything too personal or controversial, and even with this in mind, sometimes benign posts come off as inflamatory. If I were to publish today's happenings on Facebook: "Car problems, baby with croop, no power for most of the day due to a tornado, and a husband who is MIA at APSA...This is shades of residency all over again." This would put a lot of negative energy out there which REALLY is not indicative of how I feel about my life. It might span a conversation about how lucky I am to be a dawktor's wife and how blessed we are. (Really, truly, we are blessed). This snippet would be twisted six ways from Sunday and convey none of my intent which is, 'hey, these strange things happened today which reminds me of how lucky I am and how far we've come'. Instead it would ooze with negative energy and I would mentally masturbate over imaginary conversations with people. Can you say unhealthy? Really, does the bland meaningless chatter add anything to our lives? I think FB should only include cute baby photos. That is my favorite part!

          I have come to learn that social media looks and feels like communicating and connecting but actually is a poor imposter for real connections. Like any bad love affair, however, I feel conflicted and keep going back for more. Damn you, Facebook!
          In my dreams I run with the Kenyans.

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          • #6
            I think you're right about self monitoring in that it seems we can't post too personal or too controversial information online because it can be twisted six ways to Sunday. If you add a friend and learn more about them and decide you don't want to be that close of friends and you remove them then you've offended someone. If you add a friend and block them from your wall postings then they know that they aren't that close of friends with you to be able to comment. Then there are the really close friends you have that know you better than your own siblings who way over share on your profile page and you're not sure how to handle the situation because of the nature of your relationship with that person. Then articles start popping up about proper netiquette and you have to wonder which opinion piece should you follow when conflicting advice is given. Then some things done online are becoming criminal and people are going to court over it and new laws are being made about it today.

            But you're also right about forming friendships in the most unlikely of places. For example I met my husband online in a movie chat room. I know couples who met in War of the Worlds and other online gaming places and they got to know each other and marry. Many people seem to be meeting in places like this online or through mutual friends on facebook or even internet dating sites and getting married. It's certainly changing the way we interact. I've made great friends and "like minds" through meeting online and some I've even met IRL and stay in touch with. I've also been to places like this online where I found I wasn't wanted but tried to keep fitting in until I learned "why would anyone want to be around a bunch of people who don't want them there?" Why did I spend year after year going to that place to keep getting spit on? It was a lesson I easily wouldn't have tolerated IRL but for some reason online it took me a fair bit of time to finally get it.
            Last edited by Cinderella; 05-24-2011, 08:00 PM.
            PGY4 Nephrology Fellow

            Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there.

            ~ Rumi

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            • #7
              This is a really well written article - thanks for posting!! I think Social Media is what you yourself make of it and it is really up to you if you want to foster your relationships outside of them as well. I believe with any new technology comes positive and negatives and it's up to you to decide if one outweighs the other. Oh - Glee is starting - gotta go!!
              High school sweetheart and wife to an MS4 cutie, and mom to pretty baby J, silly Siamese kitty, crazy Weim, and funny ferret.

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              • #8
                On a side note, your social network and the social networks of your friends actually affects your risk of developing obesity, even if you are in different geographic regions. I can provide various references if anyone is curious. (This is huge in the MPH world right now)
                Wife to PGY4 & Mother of 3.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Crystal View Post
                  On a side note, your social network and the social networks of your friends actually affects your risk of developing obesity, even if you are in different geographic regions. I can provide various references if anyone is curious. (This is huge in the MPH world right now)
                  Interesting. Is it as simple as spending too much time in sedentary activities and not enough moving around?
                  Kris

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Ladybug View Post
                    Whether or not Twitter makes you stupid, it certainly makes some smart people sound stupid.
                    This is absolutely true. I don't use Twitter -- it just seems weird to me. Something about the 160 character limitation maybe (I'm always too wordy). I do use Facebook, and I use it a lot. I like it, I like staying in touch with people that I otherwise wouldn't be in touch with. I've rekindled some really great friendships that ended only because of circumstance (parents moving, schools changing) rather than disagreement, and I treasure that. I'm able to be more tuned in to what is going on in my area - fundraisers, coupons, events that interest me or my family - than I would be otherwise. I think ALL of these things are what you make of them (if you choose to use them -- I certainly don't fault someone for choosing not to use FB or twitter). I don't type in the silly teenage "waaayyyyyy cooooool cuz I h8 that" (God, I can't even fake that well) message format. I'm in touch with family, friends, friends of my mother, kids of older friends -- I love it, and I love it unapologetically.

                    I enjoyed the article, but kept hearing adults of the 50's and 60's in my head saying "that silly rock 'n roll won't last". The newest thing is almost always frowned upon by the people who were already grown when it came to be ... I remember thinking that email thing wouldn't catch on, and why would anyone want a Palm Pilot?? - a rolodex and a paper calendar worked just fine!

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                    • #11
                      Jenn, I was thinking the same thing regarding the old guard grumpiness. There's no going back and the world is wickedly connected (in a purely technical sense).

                      I guess the thing I found most interesting about the article is the potential of all this unprecedented technology and access to information to dumb us down. I stink at spelling. Although I love reading, I'm an etymology enthusiast and I have decent memory recall there is just something wrong with my brain in the spelling department. Enter google and autocorrect. My spelling has *deteriorated.* I let google figure it out and select the correct spelling from the drop down suggestions. Microsoft outlook autocorrects my missteps while I'm typing emails. These neural connections in my brain have atrophed because I don't need them on the computer and I'm rarely handwritting anything other than a grocery or to-do list. If they do develop computers that are connected to our brains (like the one mentioned in the article) would it autocorrect all my words/thoughts? Would I even need to know how to spell or only know the phonetics? How motivated would students be to learn how to spell if this was the case? How duz the loss of spelling skillz impact our learning, speech and communications at higher levels?

                      I saw an interesting quote somewhere about how we were first visual and verbal communicators -- art was one of the church's primary ways of telling stories because most people were illiterate. Stories were memorized and told. Then we entered into the the golden age of the written word. People communicated through letters, novels, newspapers, etc. In some aspects we seem to be returning to a visual society. Movies, TV and internet. The communications seems to be becoming quicker, more succint: tweets, texts, status updates, emails. Thoughts seem overwhelmingly less eloquent and beautiful when you compare them to Victorian letters. Are we losing the beauty of human communication? IMHO yes. It makes me sad and guarded to preserve it somehow for myself and especially my children. Texting on minature keyboards and poking at ipads had certainly limited my word count. It's just too much trouble to be anything but direct and efficient. I wonder how these mechanical barriers will continue to shape our communications, and how our written communications will then shape our social interactions and connections. On the other hand, I can see how handwriting an eloquent, poetic letter once a month is less actual interaction than mulitple quick texts or emails every day. Maybe it's more the beauty, poetry and higher-level communication skills that are being lost than actual human social connections or interactions. Are these two seperate issues or do they impact and somehow shape each other?

                      The power blinked out at work last week and we were offline for an hour (gasp!). I was so bored after about 20 minutes. It made me realize I fill every free moment with internet. It's the ulimate distract. It was interesting how people were up and about seeking out conversations, connections, etc. We're usually filling that need in little flashes on internet. It was very eye opening social test that revealed how the internet is impacting work productivity and our IRL socilization.

                      I find social media a mixed bag. I've used it both positively and negatively. I think people are more open and honest about their thoughts when they have the social safety of cyberspace. I've learned a lot more about people's inner thought process and feelings online that I ever would have in person. People are just more polite and wary of confrontation IRL. On the other hand it can be a huge time suck that nothing life-changing comes from. I could have read a great novel...or cleaned my house. LOL.
                      Last edited by Ladybug; 05-25-2011, 09:09 AM.
                      -Ladybug

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Ladybug View Post
                        Although I love reading, I'm an etymology enthusiast and I have decent memory recall there is just something wrong with my brain in the spelling department.
                        As an aside, I was listening to an NPR interview with Roy Blount, Jr. and immediately thought of you. His 2 most recent books are about word origin/word usage: Alphabet Juice and Alphabetter Juice.

                        I do agree with the change in communication. I get weird looks, or even weird facebook comments when I use "big" words ... (Hello? Use that other fancy internet thing and go google it!). The internet is a time-suck for sure.

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                        • #13
                          I reduced my online social media usage by 90% recently after I experienced a weird phenomenon while working on a virology paper. I had several print articles to read that weren't available online. I kept trying to get my brain to search for key words like I do online. It was sort of startling to me. For me, social media and blips of conversations changed how I read and socialize.

                          It has only been a few weeks, but my reading is becoming more concentrated again. Socially? I find texting to be unfulfilling for the most part. It isn't the same as actually talking to someone and conversations are dropped started in the middle, shortened, etc. I do use it sparingly though

                          Facebook? When I am in the midst of using it, I feel ok about it. When I back off just a little I see that for me personally I'm mostly reading who drove to what store, bought what purse etc. Its like being at a cocktail party and getting little blips. people tend to try to put the best of who they are out there and it doesn't quite seem genuine to me. Again, it isn't how I want to socialize. At the same time, I stay active only to keep up with friends from high school/college etc. Beyond that, I'm happier to be able to interact more IRL.

                          Everyone is diff. though.

                          Kris

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                          ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
                          ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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                          • #14
                            Sort if a weird question, but does anyone else here find that they feel less depressed etc when they are online less? I have found myself happier and much less stressed. Weird.


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                            • #15
                              I do, Kris. I think a lot of it is because I'm up and moving, circulating my blood. I'm not a big TV watcher, so when I'm sitting it's because I'm on the computer. I also get more chores done and feel positive about that. But I can be sucked back into cyberspace at the drop of a good post. Seriously, I've gotten nothing done at work but the bare minimum this morning. I've crazy-lady edited my post 20 times becaue I haven't written a thought that long or complex in 6 months. Maybe more. Must.debate.here.more. Write one compound sentence a day...

                              Now I'm off to look up those words, Jenn. Then I going to work. For reals.
                              Last edited by Ladybug; 05-25-2011, 09:30 AM.
                              -Ladybug

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