Because I don't have any personal experience with this but wanted to understand it from a certain perspective, I asked a friend who has experienced it, and who is also a Christian marriage & family therapist. I really liked his response to the article:
Matt's take on depression and suicide feels simplistic and lacking in both understanding and compassion. Does suicide come down to a choice? Yes, but Walsh makes it sound as simple and as obvious as choosing whether to eat a grapefruit versus a grenade. Does suicide devastate loved ones for a very long time? Absolutely. But what Matt doesn't understand because he's never been on the brink is that suicide is not a rational thought or a step taken with clear vision of the present/future. Hopelessness sets in and all is dark. In that moment escape and relief from the dragon is accepted at any price. I'm not defending it, only explaining it. And Matt Walsh doesn't get it because if he did he would not have written anything that feels so naive. If he had ever really stood on the brink with his toes hanging over the edge he would know that it's more than just a "choice" that makes you step back.
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