Cosby

[spaz]

thank you

[medpedspouse]

I do not think you were wrong about this person. He was all the things you described in addition to all the things he did to the music minister and others. It is not either or. I feel sorry for ministers because we expect them to be wonderful in all facets. I had a minister that I loved but learned he was a horrible boss/office leader. Is it disappointing? Yes, but it does not take away from the fact that he was also a great counselor, teacher, dad, husband, etc., etc.

[Ladybug]

I think everyone is so speechless and sad. No one knows what to say. There is too much smoke to not be a fire. What scares me most is that I really think I know most parents I allow my kids to hang out with…We might be going off the grid soon.

[diggitydot]

Cosby

Yes, people can absolutely be one way to some people and a different way to others. Particularly, predatory sex offenders. Not saying the pastor who surprised you was a predatory sex offender, but I have zero doubts that Cosby is.