I'm pretty laid back about the whole debate thing. I have strong personal opinions, but I have fun debating about it all..I enjoy reading other people's perspectives, getting all excited about it, thinking of new responses, etc. In europe, it is really common to go out to the local bars and have coffee or beer and talk politics, religion, etc until late in the night. People get excited, animated and all kinds of things...and for the most part no one took it really personally....
I guess that's kind of where I fall too...I get excited, animated and don't take it all personally...but I've recognized over the last year that a lot of people really do...and it seems to be very hard to be friends here with people with different political ideologies because you can't talk about your differences. My neighbor is very pro-Bush and pro-Iraq. She has yellow ribbons up on all of her trees, Bush bumper stickers and a flag hanging in the yard. I have listend to plenty of pro-Bush rhetoric from her. One day before the elections (she assumed I was voting for Bush) I mentioned that I would be voting for Kerry. She said "don't tell me, or we can't be friends anymore". I found that to be offensive because I have no problem at all hearing her pro-Bush, pro-Iraq war opinions...
Do you take debates personally? Would you ever consider ending a friendship with someone who has other political or religious beliefs?
kris
I guess that's kind of where I fall too...I get excited, animated and don't take it all personally...but I've recognized over the last year that a lot of people really do...and it seems to be very hard to be friends here with people with different political ideologies because you can't talk about your differences. My neighbor is very pro-Bush and pro-Iraq. She has yellow ribbons up on all of her trees, Bush bumper stickers and a flag hanging in the yard. I have listend to plenty of pro-Bush rhetoric from her. One day before the elections (she assumed I was voting for Bush) I mentioned that I would be voting for Kerry. She said "don't tell me, or we can't be friends anymore". I found that to be offensive because I have no problem at all hearing her pro-Bush, pro-Iraq war opinions...
Do you take debates personally? Would you ever consider ending a friendship with someone who has other political or religious beliefs?
kris
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