Is it bad to get someone a gift without telling them you're giving them one?
I know it's not "bad" to give gifts without expecting anything back in return, but I worry that I'll put the other person in an awkward position and making them feel as though they should've gotten me something but did not. At the same time, I don't like telling people "Hey, what do you want?" or "I'm getting you something!" because I love surprising people, and although it would be nice to get something in return, I certainly do not expect it or need anything in return. Gift giving is really the way I show people I care.
I want to get my SO's roommate a towel set, because his are really old and bleached out. I think some nice, fresh, soft towels would be nice and he'd appreciate it, but I know the roommate wouldn't think of getting anything for me.
My sister says it's kind of weird, because I'm not close friends with him. I mean, we get along, and I see him all the time, and I definitely use his hand towel- perhaps a secret motivator to me buying him a new one.
Any thoughts? I'm going to bring this up to my SO later, but I wanted to know what you all thought.
I know it's not "bad" to give gifts without expecting anything back in return, but I worry that I'll put the other person in an awkward position and making them feel as though they should've gotten me something but did not. At the same time, I don't like telling people "Hey, what do you want?" or "I'm getting you something!" because I love surprising people, and although it would be nice to get something in return, I certainly do not expect it or need anything in return. Gift giving is really the way I show people I care.
I want to get my SO's roommate a towel set, because his are really old and bleached out. I think some nice, fresh, soft towels would be nice and he'd appreciate it, but I know the roommate wouldn't think of getting anything for me.
My sister says it's kind of weird, because I'm not close friends with him. I mean, we get along, and I see him all the time, and I definitely use his hand towel- perhaps a secret motivator to me buying him a new one.
Any thoughts? I'm going to bring this up to my SO later, but I wanted to know what you all thought.
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