If you could tell him...

[Phoebe]

Get a life! All work and no play? DH needs some balance in his life.

He needs to learn to say no. He helps others out too much and doesn't get the favor returned. Our family pays.

When we started out fourth year - (long distance) we just said to get through one month at a time.
Now that he is moving from hospital to hospital externing, we are taking it week by week. Sometimes day to day!
We joke lots, we visit as much as we can, we send each other flirty (and sometimes more than flirty ) texts...

My SO is very thoughtful... he wants to know all about how my day went before we even get into his, he always asks about how my kids are doing, how I am feeling etc etc. He is very considerate and I am lucky for that!!