ok So We bought this house...

And keep in mind that you're talking to a lot of people who've had to move 4 and 5 (if not more) times for their spouse's career. 99.9% of people don't get to do undergrad, med school, and residency all at the same place. You've been really really lucky so far.

yeah that must really suck i dont think i wouldve had it in me to move so many times... the next time we move i hoping after the fellowship that she chooses to STAY put in that city/area

i really dont like moving, we moved so much during med school...
had to find a place closer to school... did that then it was too noisey
had to pack up and move again, then found something else wrong with that place... and moved again. we have been all around this city

id just like to get somewhere and stay put! our daughter hasnt started school yet but i dont want to be moving all the time when she does start