My guy is gen surg, and while yes, it does suck, I think from all the warnings I got from this group, that it doesn't seem as bad as it could be. Then again, we did intern year long distance, and it seems to be getting better each year. Don't get me wrong. There are a lot of things that drive me crazy, and its no easy road, but if its all you know, and you have this group backing you up, its survivable. I think for me, it also helps that I am independent. I enjoy every third or fourth night that he is on call (which means he stays the night at the hospital). I get my me time. It makes me miss him and appreciate when he is here. (Though sometimes I tell him to go back to work when he is aggravating me )
As for matching, I cant say much because J and I were still in the first year of dating at the time and I wasn't exactly a factor in it. J just ranked the programs he found to be fitting to his style and needs and in locations he desired living. I think he only left one of the places he interviewed off the list. We matched at our fourth choice and honestly, I think its been a great match for him. We love his co-residents and while every program has its kinks, its been great overall.
As for matching, I cant say much because J and I were still in the first year of dating at the time and I wasn't exactly a factor in it. J just ranked the programs he found to be fitting to his style and needs and in locations he desired living. I think he only left one of the places he interviewed off the list. We matched at our fourth choice and honestly, I think its been a great match for him. We love his co-residents and while every program has its kinks, its been great overall.
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