OK People-
My SIL (whom I truly love dearly, she was my Best Chick!) is pregnant and expecting the first niece/nephew in May. I offered to host a baby shower at my mother's house.
She just emailed me the list- and even taking in to account the people I have immediately removed (extraneous relatives) and people that I know won't come- it's still 46 people. My mother's house will hold about 20-25. My other thought is that a shower for that huge number of people, even if 30 actually show, we'd be sitting around watching her open gifts for four freaking hours- or more.
So, other than saying- "do you actually think people enjoy baby showers?" or "what on God's name are you thinking, do you think that many people give a rat's ass that you're having a baby?" or "not no but hell no"- what should I do? I was thinking of having a chat with my brother first, but he's such a freak these days that I'm not sure that would have the intended effect. I may just come out and say "mom's house holds 20 people plus us- pick them from the list". What do you all think?
I was thinking about doing a nice luncheon- not a freaking EVENT.
Jenn
My SIL (whom I truly love dearly, she was my Best Chick!) is pregnant and expecting the first niece/nephew in May. I offered to host a baby shower at my mother's house.
She just emailed me the list- and even taking in to account the people I have immediately removed (extraneous relatives) and people that I know won't come- it's still 46 people. My mother's house will hold about 20-25. My other thought is that a shower for that huge number of people, even if 30 actually show, we'd be sitting around watching her open gifts for four freaking hours- or more.
So, other than saying- "do you actually think people enjoy baby showers?" or "what on God's name are you thinking, do you think that many people give a rat's ass that you're having a baby?" or "not no but hell no"- what should I do? I was thinking of having a chat with my brother first, but he's such a freak these days that I'm not sure that would have the intended effect. I may just come out and say "mom's house holds 20 people plus us- pick them from the list". What do you all think?
I was thinking about doing a nice luncheon- not a freaking EVENT.
Jenn
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