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We got a new apartment! We're moving! Woohoo!

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  • We got a new apartment! We're moving! Woohoo!

    We put down a deposit on a new place last night. The contrast between the new place and our current place is stark, in that our current place is a definite dump, and our new place is in a brand-new building--the first tenants start moving in March 1--so everything is new, bathroom, kitchen etc. Lots of people love the charm of an old place, but I'm not one of them. And our new place is a two-bedroom.

    Our reasons for moving were twofold: we definitely needed to move closer to FH's school now that he's going into third year, and he didn't want the hassle of moving anywhere around the time of boards. But also we were definitely ready for a "grown-up" apartment. Our current apartment is in the basement of a house, which has been "refinished" definitely by amateurs--nothing sits square to anything else (walls, doorways, sinks), the ceilings are low and the windows are tiny, the walls are trailer-park wood paneling and the floors are boldly-patterned linoleum, even in the livingroom. It's kind of comical, really. We love it the way you love a three-legged puppy who's blind in one eye. It's the kind of place you gladly move into when you're 23 and just starting out and you don't even notice because you're like "Wow, I'm in New York! How exciting!" And the next thing you know it's been five years and you're pushing thirty and you can't help but think "Wow, I really need to live in a place that's not someone else's dumpy basement."

    I'm glad that we've stayed as long as we have, because it's definitely been good financially--the place has been dirt cheap by NYC standards, so as my income has gone up that's allowed me to get a leg up on some other financial goals (like dispensing with my undergrad loans). But there comes a time when you've got to move upward and onward.

    The new place is in Brooklyn, it'll be on the 2nd or 3rd floor of a six-story building (which has an elevator), when you first walk in there's one main room that's a kitchen (kitchenette?) at the near end and a living area at the far end, the bathroom door is off the main room near the front door, and then there's a small bedroom off either side of the main room. We'll make one of those our bedroom and the other will have the computer and a futon probably. (Yay, we can finally have guests!)

    It took us about 10 seconds of looking to know we wanted the place. I'm glad because I thought we were going to end up fighting about this apartment thing. We've looked at a handful of apartments together now, and I've learned that my FH is a total apartment slut--almost every apartment we've looked at he's like "Let's take it!" even if there's something obviously horribly wrong with it (like it's a half mile uphill from the nearest subway station AND it's a fourth-floor walkup). He was starting to worry that I would just "find a flaw" with every place we looked at, and we'd never move. Point well taken. When we walked into this place last night we both knew.

    Sorry to ramble, I'm very excited today.
    Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
    Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

    “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
    Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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    Congratulations Julie! Sounds like a great place!

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    • #3
      So you're movin' on up to that big apartment in the sky! How exciting for you both!

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      • #4
        Yeah! Congratulations!

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        • #5
          Great news!
          It sounds like life is treating you a-o.k. right now. Enjoy!
          Kelly
          In my dreams I run with the Kenyans.

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          • #6
            Yeah, I was thinking that, too! New job, new fiance, and new apartment all in six months. Lots of changes and all good. I'll have to remember all this the next time the bad times roll around.
            Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
            Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

            “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
            Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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            • #7
              Congratualtions Julie... You got your space. I was meaning to ask you...I'm thinking about a trip to NYC to visit a friend... Yippee, well not completely yippee, I'll have to take my 6- month old son with me, which I don't mind a bit, except for the Sex-in-the-city-cosmopolitan dream will still be a dream but hey NYC is NYC. I was wondering if is possible with a little baby, (of course it is I know) but are there people that go around with strollers and things, are restaruants baby friendly???Just wondering.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by nattysmor
                Congratualtions Julie... You got your space. I was meaning to ask you...I'm thinking about a trip to NYC to visit a friend... Yippee, well not completely yippee, I'll have to take my 6- month old son with me, which I don't mind a bit, except for the Sex-in-the-city-cosmopolitan dream will still be a dream but hey NYC is NYC. I was wondering if is possible with a little baby, (of course it is I know) but are there people that go around with strollers and things, are restaruants baby friendly???Just wondering.

                Actually the new space is not much bigger (I guess some things are inescapable in New York) but it makes much better use of the space--our old place had oddly shaped rooms that resulted in some dead space. The realtor didn't know the square footage of the place--I'll have to measure, hopefully we've gained a bit.

                As I'm thinking about your question, I'm realizing that I personally don't currently know any babies, so I have no personal expertise on how baby-friendly New York is. I certainly see people out with their babies, either in one of those snugli pack things or in a stroller, and they don't look miserable or anything. You can bring a baby in a stroller onto the subway, but I think you usually have to carry both baby and stroller up the stairs--lots of subway stations aren't handicap-accessible, I believe. I've defintely seen babies in casual restaurants--diners, pizzarias, our favorite BBQ joint--but I'm not sure what happens if you want to bring one to a "nicer" place. I bet it would be okay as long as he was quiet . . . In general in New York you can do almost whatever you want an no one will bat an eye, unless you personally inconvenience them, and then they may let you have it. I think even the jaded New Yorkers understand babies as a fact of life, though, and will make allowances.

                Hopefully Sue Anne will see this and respond--she's a New Yorker with an infant now. Or Jill, who grew up here.
                Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
                Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

                “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
                Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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                • #9
                  Congratulations Julie!
                  Awake is the new sleep!

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                  • #10
                    Julie,

                    Awesome! So happy for you. Where in Brooklyn are you? Good luck with the move. I think we will also be moving to a bigger apartment close to DC....and I am very excited for the change and for more space. And I meant to ask you about your dress....but maybe you addressed this in another post?

                    About babies in NYC, I think it's totally doable. Yes, if you take the subway you'll have to lug the stroller up and down, but if you have a light umbrella stroller you should be fine. You could also take the bus or a cab. I know there is a children's museum in Soho that is obviously kid friendly, and aside from bars and clubs I think most restaurants will accomodate a baby. Definitely don't let it discourage you -- I see families all the time!

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                    • #11
                      A cab! Of course! I tend to sort of forget that the taxi option exists because if you make them part of your regular lifestyle the cost really adds up, but for someone making a visit to the city, they make lots of sense--it'd be easier with the baby, plus they take you right door to door so you're unlikely to get lost, etc. Probably worth the small extra expense.


                      Since I still have 14 1/2 months 8O until the wedding, I'm waiting a few months before dress shopping to see if I can continue to lose a little weight first.


                      Our new neighborhood is Sunset Park. I'm a little bit worried about telling our current landlord we're leaving, tomorrow. March's rent would normally be due tomorrow, but since I already paid our last month's rent when I moved in, it's going to be like "Oh, today is rent day but we don't have anything for you because I already gave it to you five years ago." I have the feeling she's going to argue with me, and I'm not looking forward to it.
                      Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
                      Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

                      “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
                      Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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                      • #12
                        Congratulations!!!!! Moving can be fun (really).
                        Luanne
                        Luanne
                        wife, mother, nurse practitioner

                        "You have not converted a man because you have silenced him." (John, Viscount Morely, On Compromise, 1874)

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                        • #13
                          What's Sunset Park like these days? I was there years ago, visiting a friend that grew up there. He lived in a brownstone that was really nice.

                          How did telling the landlord go?

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                          • #14
                            It seems very neighborhoody. When we were there in the summer there were definitely a lot of skinny shoeless kids running around and yammering like they owned the place and lots of people out on the street and hanging out in the park, which I like to see. It seems friendly enough.

                            There are a lot of brownstones and row houses of varying degrees of niceness. I was originally hoping we'd find a renovated brownstone apartment, but we ended up liking the apartment in this new 36-unit building better.

                            The neighborhood has apparently been going through a pretty definite gentrification, starting about two years ago (and in fact we first became aware of it because several of our friends moved there). I don't know if Hispanics are the largest ethnic group, or if whites are now the largest, but I'm sure it's close either way. There definitely seems to be more Spanish spoken in the neighborhood than any other foreign language, from what I can tell.

                            I'm definitely looking forward to living there and I'm glad we're moving in the spring, so we have all summer to explore the neighborhood in warm weather.
                            Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
                            Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

                            “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
                            Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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