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  • Have sex every night...

    http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/56472...ushpmg00000063

    "What do I look like? A Nymphomaniacal Super Woman?"

    Hahahahaha.

    Change some gender pronouns and give to the doctor hubbies and we've got ourselves a plan! How ashamed many of the DHs 16 year old selves would be!

  • #2
    Hahahaha even my 27-year-old self is disappointed in current me!

    I liked how she freaked out after 8 days. Bitch please. I'm not sure we've done it eight times this calendar year.
    I'm just trying to make it out alive!

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    • #3
      I saw this! I was reading it at 3AM while nursing the baby for the second time last night.
      Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by corn poffi View Post
        Hahahaha even my 27-year-old self is disappointed in current me!

        I liked how she freaked out after 8 days. Bitch please.
        Seriously...lol

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        • #5
          Originally posted by corn poffi View Post
          Hahahaha even my 27-year-old self is disappointed in current me!

          I liked how she freaked out after 8 days. Bitch please. I'm not sure we've done it eight times this calendar year.

          Um.. This calendar year... 0...

          And as we have talked about it on here before... its not usually the wife that doesn't want it... Its usually a role reversal in the medical relationship.. but right now post baby.. I am to effing tired.

          And Mrs K.. are our babes on the same schedule? oy.
          -L.Jane

          Wife to a wonderful General Surgeon
          Mom to a sweet but stubborn boy born April 2014
          Rock Chalk Jayhawk GO KU!!!

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          • #6
            Every night is not realistic, but there is some truth in what she wrote. I'm surprised how many days we had gone without touching at all post most recent baby. But we are nicer to each other when we make sex a priority.

            And we waited 6 years. Our 20 year old selves would want to smack us
            Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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            • #7
              I'm not sure I'm really the target market for the article or the conversation but I still agree with it. Life is happier and we work better together when our sex life is active. It's worth the effort on both of our parts and, so far, it's working for us. I guess more time and hopefully babies someday will test us but for now I'm thankful for my very regular nookie.
              wife of a PGY-2 anesthesiology resident & mother of one adorable baby girl

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              • #8
                As my mom always said, "if your marriage is on the rocks a good deal of them are probably under the bed"

                I'm not sure you need to have sex every night but I do think it is exceedingly important to touch, hold hands, hug, and physically connect. Don't let that stuff ever leave your relationship.
                Last edited by Pollyanna; 08-07-2014, 07:43 PM.
                Tara
                Married 20 years to MD/PhD in year 3 of MFM fellowship. SAHM to five wonderful children (#6 due in August), a sweet GSD named Bella, a black lab named Toby, and 1 guinea pig.

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                • #9
                  An article similar to this came out when dh was a resident. One of the other spouses and I decided to go for it.

                  It wasn't sustainable, but it did give us Alex. LOL

                  I'd be happy to get back to once a week...

                  Kris
                  ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
                  ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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                  • #10
                    Bwahahaha Kris!!
                    Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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                    • #11
                      I also like "one of the other spouses and I decided to go for it." I know what you meant but it made me giggle
                      Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by DrBandMe View Post
                        Life is happier and we work better together when our sex life is active.
                        I agree with this. For me, pregnancy and nursing are such obstacles. Pregnancy because I'm always so sick and nursing because it really saps my libido. Sex is just not as much fun as it used to be.



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                        Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by soonertexan View Post
                          i also like "one of the other spouses and i decided to go for it." i know what you meant but it made me giggle
                          lol
                          ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
                          ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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                          • #14
                            Yep, role reversal here tonight!
                            Last edited by ladymoreta; 08-07-2014, 08:43 PM.
                            Laurie
                            My team: DH (anesthesiologist), DS (9), DD (8)

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                            • #15
                              ha, i don't even think his libido could handle twice a week. but 'let him see you naked thing' is interesting. it kind of freaks me out how husband stares when I'm changing.

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