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The reason I hate group work

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  • The reason I hate group work

    Andrew is taking Environmental Sociology. He got assigned a group project with three girls. They tried texting him but his cell phone was out of minutes. Damn! We topped up his minutes and he texted and emailed all group members. They finally contacted him at midnight last night. The project is due this morning.
    He thinks he will have to drop the class if he doesn't get credit for some part of the group project. He understood that their initial attempt to contact him failed, but not why his repeated attempts to contact them went unanswered.
    Sigh.
    FYI. The stress doesn't end when they graduate.
    ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
    ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

  • #2
    Originally posted by PrincessFiona View Post
    Andrew is taking Environmental Sociology. He got assigned a group project with three girls. They tried texting him but his cell phone was out of minutes. Damn! We topped up his minutes and he texted and emailed all group members. They finally contacted him at midnight last night. The project is due this morning.
    He thinks he will have to drop the class if he doesn't get credit for some part of the group project. He understood that their initial attempt to contact him failed, but not why his repeated attempts to contact them went unanswered.
    Sigh.
    FYI. The stress doesn't end when they graduate.
    Hugs. That stinks for Andrew. Hopefully the girls will just include him in the credit and the teacher will be none the wiser.

    ETA: Can he get on an unlimited text plan in the future? It has always been cheeper for us to go that route vs paying for individual texts.
    Tara
    Married 20 years to MD/PhD in year 3 of MFM fellowship. SAHM to five wonderful children (#6 due in August), a sweet GSD named Bella, a black lab named Toby, and 1 guinea pig.

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    • #3
      He has a pay as you go iphone. He buys monthly cards. We never put our kids on our plan because we use their phones as discipline. Don't clean up/get behind at school? No phone card. Now Andrew is 19 and we've just paid his monthly cards. He usually has continual service.

      DH won't add him to our plan because the hospital pays for it. Maybe he'll need to sign up for his own 2 year contract.

      Kris
      ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
      ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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      • #4
        Interesting - I didn't know texts were linked to phone minutes, but maybe that's just with pay-as-you-go phones?

        It's definitely BS though that they didn't text/email him until midnight! WTF! Could he have emailed them from his computer? I hope it all works out and there's no issue. Group projects can really suck.
        Wife, support system, and partner-in-crime to PGY-3 (IM) and spoiler of our 11 y/o yellow lab

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        • #5
          He emailed them ASAP. Apparrntly, no one checked their campus emails until late. I just talked to him and it turns out he stayed up until 3 am working on a piece for the project ... so in the end it looks like it worked out.
          ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
          ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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          • #6
            Originally posted by PrincessFiona View Post
            He emailed them ASAP. Apparrntly, no one checked their campus emails until late. I just talked to him and it turns out he stayed up until 3 am working on a piece for the project ... so in the end it looks like it worked out.
            Oh good - as long as he contributed something I think there's no way they'd waste the time to act like he wasn't involved. One less thing for him to worry about!
            Wife, support system, and partner-in-crime to PGY-3 (IM) and spoiler of our 11 y/o yellow lab

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            • #7
              What a rollercoaster. He needs to move back into the dorms so I don't know about this stuff. LOL
              ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
              ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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              • #8
                Yes, definitely look in to an unlimited text plan; these days they are cheaper for most people.

                Interestingly, my son has an engineering team for most of their projects this year. They've done two. The third assignment was to evaluate your teammates in an ungraded survey for the prof. I thought that was a cool move. I think team work has its benefits but it definitely has a down side.
                Angie
                Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
                Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)

                "Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"

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                • #9
                  I hated it in college. I get why they do it because it is the reality in much of the working world, but I always found my coworkers to be more responsible than my classmates. Getting paid and the ability to get fired seems to be good motivations
                  Married to a newly minted Pediatric Rad, momma to a sweet girl and a bunch of (mostly) cute boy monsters.



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                  • #10
                    Group projects = introvert kryptonite

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by MrsSz View Post
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                        this!
                        ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
                        ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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                        • #13
                          LOVE that MrsSz!!!!!
                          Tara
                          Married 20 years to MD/PhD in year 3 of MFM fellowship. SAHM to five wonderful children (#6 due in August), a sweet GSD named Bella, a black lab named Toby, and 1 guinea pig.

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                          • #14
                            I'm passing that on to my daughter. She will love it.
                            Angie
                            Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
                            Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)

                            "Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"

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