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  • #46
    I'm sorry, I hate it about myself that my MO when giving advice is to suggest more research and reading to people who are already overwhelmed. I just don't always know how to accurately summarize all the things I found valuable.

    But I just re-read the book in February, and did so with the bullet journal method in mind. For example, David Allen says, "To manage actionable things, you will need * a list of projects, * storage or files for project plans and materials, * a calendar, * a list of reminders of next actions, * a list of reminders of things you are waiting for."

    I figure the lists go in the BuJo. The next question is how to categorize or manage the lists. Using "contexts" is a key part of GTD…but it never really worked for me either. Too much organization getting in the way of actually just putting things where they belong and doing them. But signifiers or colored highlighting or something might be enough to help you scan the bigger list, and find the things you can actually do with the tools and environment you have now. On a busy day I hate seeing un-checked boxes for things I can't actually do until I leave the house for errands, so I throw a little "E" in front of those tasks, and now my brain can scan right past them when looking for things to do at home, you know?

    Another GTD "thing" is that if the task will take less than 2 minutes, don't even put it on a list. Just do it. It's trite but it helps me.

    I'm also prone to wicked imposter syndrome, and to last-minute cramming. Something I tell myself when I take on a role of responsibility to others and I freak out that I'm not qualified, is that someone has to do it. And at the moment, I happen to have the experience and skill to do it. So there's probably nobody better, even if I don't feel like I'm the best choice. Also, while throwing together a draft when the pressure gets strong enough is a method that's working, it's also stressful, yeah? Would it be less stressful if you could look at the deadline, backtrack a few days or a week and give yourself a mini-deadline to do a really shitty first draft or an outline, or something that would make the final push a little less insane?

    Sounds like some stuff is coming together to help you get a handle on things. TGIF indeed!!
    Alison

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    • #47
      Yeah, ideally I would set myself false early deadlines and get drafts done a week in advance, but in reality the flow of work never slows down enough for me to get ahead. It is possible that once all my new staff are up to speed and I'm delegating more, I'll be able to get to that point. Not realistic right now. I think I'm like you in that too much organization is only going to get in my way. I can't be flipping between 5 different pages trying to figure out what goes where. Signifiers or highlighting is more doable. I do use highlighting - one color only - right now to draw out my top priorities for the day. I highlight those tasks that are absolute must-dos and that I can also realistically get done that day. Those ones almost always get checked off, so I guess that's something. Blargh. Oh well. It looks like I have a couple ideas to start breaking down my list, so that's a start.
      Wife of PGY-4 (of 6), cat herder, and mom to a sassy-pants four-nager.

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      • #48
        I know this isn't correct but I usually lay out my whole week at once. Sometimes I don't leave enough space for a day or another day will have a bunch of blank space but it's what works for me.


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        Wife of Anesthesiology Resident

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        • #49
          I'm doing a terrible job at the BuJo this week. Last week it SAVED me when I had too much on my plate and needed to juggle it all. This week I have just as much, but no hard deadlines, so I'm burying my head in the sand and saying "nope nope nope, don't want to deal with that right now!" This is why I don't get ahead. So worn out.

          The weekly list did help me to target a few priorities though, and keep my daily lists more manageable. So that helped.
          Wife of PGY-4 (of 6), cat herder, and mom to a sassy-pants four-nager.

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          • #50
            One of the most important things to learn is how to forgive yourself and move forward. The flexible journal format helps with that, because there are no blank pages staring accusingly at you. If/when you're ready, just brain dump and get started again. And breathe.
            Alison

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            • #51
              Well, it's good that I had it on a weekly list, because it meant I could move one thing at a time onto my daily lists, which allowed me to be lazy this week. "Oh, I only have to do THAT today? Easy!"

              I've also realized that I have so little in my personal BuJo that I hardly even need one day to day. I'll keep doing it for the big picture stuff like taxes, vacation planning, etc. as well as moving forward my longer term goals. And I'll keep the days going by putting in today's meal plan or other small notes. But otherwise I've outsourced or let go of a lot in my personal life. It's great, there's no big to-do list waiting for me at home right now. Though I should probably add "clean vomit from car seat" to my list for tonight.
              Wife of PGY-4 (of 6), cat herder, and mom to a sassy-pants four-nager.

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              • #52
                I think that's the healthy way to do it when your work life is so hectic! Little notes to yourself to keep the habit up and the record going should probably be plenty.
                Alison

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                • #53
                  Glad it's helping! The flexibility is definitely the strength of the system. Another piece of advice: if in a few more weeks, a better way to do things occurs to you, just start doing it that way; don't let yourself get worried about keeping the whole journal consistent or anything; the point is to make it work for you! Seems like maybe you've already done that, switching over to adding the weekly, so maybe that's just my hangup to get over.

                  I started moving checklists weeks ago. SO NICE to know that things are already captured, and the page numbers are in the index, so I can get back to them at any time, even though they're stuck in a random week in March!
                  Sandy
                  Wife of EM Attending, Web Programmer, mom to one older lady scaredy-cat and one sweet-but-dumb younger boy kitty

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                  • #54
                    Okay, with both kids' sports having games starting this week, plus a few other appointments for me, I gave in and started a weekly "layout". I am doing six squares (Monday through Saturday since we never have anything Sundays) across the bottom of whatever spread happens to contain Monday, and using it to do a "week-at-a-glance" for our schedule. I'll see if it's more of a PITA than a help.

                    Have you seen the Buzzfeed videos that are going around, about Hot Mess Mom? That is me in my natural state. It is SO WEIRD to me that with my BuJo I'm getting to be more like PTA Mom -- scary stuff.
                    Last edited by spotty_dog; 04-11-2016, 11:01 AM.
                    Alison

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                    • #55
                      Do you have a link to this?
                      Kris

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                      • #56
                        Originally posted by HouseofWool View Post
                        Do you have a link to this?
                        The Buzzfeed? This was the latest one that popped up in my Facebook feed: https://www.buzzfeed.com/chloezak/si...a-hot-mess-mom
                        Alison

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                        • #57
                          Bwahaha! I actually meant the bujo layout!!!
                          Kris

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                          • #58
                            Derp! I was like, Kris knows what a BuJo is, so...

                            Ahem. No, I kinda made it up but if you google "bullet journal Dutch door" you will see similar. I just don't cut my pages because I don't mind flipping back, and because I need to keep the flexibility of having some daily lists take up way more room than others. I can grab a photo tomorrow when I can make time to blur the non-public bits.
                            Alison

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                            • #59
                              I'm going to spend some more time on this this week. I have a moleskin I jot notes in, but I've only used a few pages. Nothing is organized, of course. Should I remove the pages that I've already written on before starting BuJo?

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                              • #60
                                Originally posted by rufflesanddots View Post
                                I'm going to spend some more time on this this week. I have a moleskin I jot notes in, but I've only used a few pages. Nothing is organized, of course. Should I remove the pages that I've already written on before starting BuJo?
                                Nah, just start where you are.
                                Kris

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