COULD YOU IMAGINE

Could you imagine if one of your family members lurked this board and read all the private things you discussed in you forums? My dear friend and I both are on a similar board where we have lost babies and are trying to concieve and move on with lour ongoing losses. Usually when we m/c we get more support from each other than out family.
I am sure you ladies here have the same bonds we share on our board.
Well SOMEONE from this board has been lurking on her sister's board! My friend told me her her sister had her own board, and she would never go look and see what she says, it would be like reading a diary.
Thats really sad. Thanks god she is keeping the board and dropping her sibling. Am I the only one who thinks this is low?

sorry for the typo's I have am just really angry.

Yes, our support group is a little different. However we call and see each other often.
I would read my DH's email. The problem is the sister with the m/c made the mistake of showing her sister her siggy on her message board, then her sister (IMSN member) has been lurking on her sisters board (dealing with a loss)
The problem started when the sister psoted on the board that her sister wanted the baby stuff back since she had a surprise baby. It is very hard when you loose babies (2 in her situation) and have people ask for baby stuff back since its taking too long to get a BFP. Then the sister is in treatment for another health problem and send out a request for support and the IMSN sister sends a nasty letter and telling her to basically go screw her needing support.
The point it I am sure many of you will defend since you do not know who is is, but it is rude to spy on your family. I am sure if I read your journal you would have things in there someone may not like. Yes it is a public domain, but its a reallyhard to find message board and she did not happen upon it she searched it out to be sneaky

[Vanquisher]

Forgive me, but what problem of this is ours?

The IMSN member you are referring to is NOT 99% most of the people on this board (one person), and I do not think we need to be brought into this situation at all. If you want to confront her directly, please do so, but this passive-aggressive stuff is unnecessary.

I am very sorry for your friend's loss, and I hope you can help each other move on.

I hope that your friend can come to an understanding with her sister, but it is really no business of mine what is going on and who did what to whom.

Besides, it stinks a little of troll droppings.... trying to cause trouble?

[Rapunzel]

Ummm... Can we say cryptic and just a little bit high schoolish in a passive aggressive manner?

If you put something on an internet website you have put it out into the public sphere (even the "private" portions of this site are, to some extent, "public). It's like yelling something in a crowded room: It would be ridiculous to then become upset because a family member was standing in that same room and overheard what was being said.

This is one of the main reasons so many on this site purposely censor some things they say about their spouses' specific programs (in fear of someone from the same program reading the criticism). It's just a common sense thing.

I'm just not getting this.... What IS the point?

AND....I have to wonder if this is real anyway - it could very well be some bored individual randomly finding a messageboard and having a good time confusing everyone.

[Meenah]

Let the sisters handle it and please do not involve this board, it doesn't belong here. It sounds as if you are trying to stir up trouble. Take it elsewhere please.

[PrincessFiona]

It is unfortunate that your board had a problem, but as the others have said, this needs to be taken up with the member of your board and is between her and her sister. It has nothing to do with the group here.

Kris