So DH and I had the "what are we going to tell nosy people" talk last night. We've decided the first time they ask "so when are you having kids?" the response will be "its in the 5-year plan", the second time the response will be "probably nine months after we get pregnant" and the third time they're going to get cornered and get the whole run down of the last 18 months which we suspect will take about 20 minutes and they won't ask anymore.