I guess we brought the discussion to a standstill. In retrospect, it does all look pretty negative. I will say this....if I had it to do all over again with my husband I would.....and I wouldn't change having had children when we did or him choosing a fellowship.....I think that the only thing that I would change were my expectations and some of my responses. I think that if I had been different that things would have been easier for us both. I think that Thomas would agree...his expectations for residency and fellowship were also unrealistic and if he had gone in knowing how exhausted he would be...prepared to deal with it...well, he might be better off now too.
But we have sort of...crossed that proverbial hump and are on the downslide now...just 6 months to go...and so I think right now we are starting to go through the stages of moving on...
I apologize for kind of "exploding" there....we all cope differently I guess.
Kris
But we have sort of...crossed that proverbial hump and are on the downslide now...just 6 months to go...and so I think right now we are starting to go through the stages of moving on...
I apologize for kind of "exploding" there....we all cope differently I guess.
Kris
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