Aidan was sick for about 10 days before the holidays and then right after christmas he came down with something again and was sick for 4 days. The result: clinginess and an addiction to nursing. He had been taking a cup at mealtimes and a sippy cup during the day and I had reduced the nursing quite a bit.
We're big co-sleepers and that hasn't presented a problem for us. We have co-slept with the kids for the first few years of their life...I know we're crazy :! It's never been a big problem (at least that I remember).
Since his bout of sickness though, Aidan has been waking up every hour to nurse...When he was sick I was much more understanding, but now, I'm just plain exhausted. The thing is, he won't...unlatch. He wants to use me as a pacifier all night long and after he has fallen asleep, I can't unlatch him. He ends up waking up and screaming. For awhile, I would just get up and walk to the bathroom and he'd fall back asleep once I was gone. Then he got wise to me and would start scraming, crawl off the bed and come into the bathroom shrieking. Last night, I was so upset (and exhausted) that I realized that if I didn't move him from our room I was going to lose it...so I put him in his swing, put hte swing in Thomas' office and closed the door. At this point, it was 4.14 am. I felt so guilty to leave him there in the semi-dark screaming so I sat in the family room on the sofa waiting for him to fall asleep. He screamed non-stop until 4.50am...I kid you not! I felt so guilty/horrible that I finally got him, took him upstairs, and played pacifier for the rest of the night.
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:thud:
I'm totally beat and I'm just dreading tonight.
Does anyone have any suggestions for me? Benadryl? Rum? :>
kris
We're big co-sleepers and that hasn't presented a problem for us. We have co-slept with the kids for the first few years of their life...I know we're crazy :! It's never been a big problem (at least that I remember).
Since his bout of sickness though, Aidan has been waking up every hour to nurse...When he was sick I was much more understanding, but now, I'm just plain exhausted. The thing is, he won't...unlatch. He wants to use me as a pacifier all night long and after he has fallen asleep, I can't unlatch him. He ends up waking up and screaming. For awhile, I would just get up and walk to the bathroom and he'd fall back asleep once I was gone. Then he got wise to me and would start scraming, crawl off the bed and come into the bathroom shrieking. Last night, I was so upset (and exhausted) that I realized that if I didn't move him from our room I was going to lose it...so I put him in his swing, put hte swing in Thomas' office and closed the door. At this point, it was 4.14 am. I felt so guilty to leave him there in the semi-dark screaming so I sat in the family room on the sofa waiting for him to fall asleep. He screamed non-stop until 4.50am...I kid you not! I felt so guilty/horrible that I finally got him, took him upstairs, and played pacifier for the rest of the night.


I'm totally beat and I'm just dreading tonight.
Does anyone have any suggestions for me? Benadryl? Rum? :>
kris
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