Will I ever feel "together"

[gcuthbe1]

It's something about turning 30 that makes everyone question this! My hubby did it, my best friend is currently doing it, I'm sure I'll continue to see it as my close friends and I turn 30 over the next couple years.

Make a list of everything you have done and are thrilled about. Focus on how incredible life is! And if you're still feeling antsy, write another list of 5 and 10 year goals, and how you'll get there.

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[gcuthbe1]

Just a year. But it's a pain in the ass to move, find a job, hopefully get pregnant, then up and move again. Oh well

Oh, change. So much good and bad and stressful and needing/wanting to plan but not having all the info yet. I hear ya.

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[spaz]

Yeah, I felt together until I had kids. LOL... That said, as they leave the nest life IS becoming more manageable... However, I've added a job just to make it unmanageable again.

[MrsK]

I think I felt more together at 30 than I do at 42. Marriage, residency, leaving my career, moving 7 times, having kids....I'm a basket case. I definitely think it is the addition of responsibilities. Also, just life changes. Kids will break you. Perimenopause is like going through puberty again. Moving, having to make new social groups all the time, mean moms at the PTO.... is like being in high school. Then add aging parents, exhausted husbands, trying to keep a presentable home, hosting holidays, etc. No one really has it together ever.

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