Hello all!
My name is Stefanie and I just joined the site. I found this site while googleing "dating a med student" and it turned up a lot of rather dismal forcasts. I then found this site and would really like to be a part of it.
A little about me:
I am not yet married to a med student, but its all in the future plans, which is why I started to look into it more. I knew it was going to be hard, but now I am beginning to worry about how hard.
I am currently a student at PSU and my boyfriend of almost three years is a student at UNC. We are in a long distance relationship which is already hard enough, but now med school has been added to the mix which isnt making anything easier. Don't get me wrong I love him and he's worth the wait but its becoming harder. He goes to school and studies sleeps and eats, thats about it and on top of that doesnt feel that he has ten min to spare to focus on our phone conversation. I have heard that this isnt abnormal but it makes me worry. Even when I graduate and move back home to be with him will it even change? Will living together make it at all better? When he is finally a doctor does the amount of work slow down at all? I assume doctors need to continue learning throughout their careers. I guess I am worried about our future, I just don't know if I'm cut out for it, but I would do anything to be with him. Is there anyway of knowing? Does everyone have these thoughts? I really can't imagine my life without him...
So now that you all know my story, Hello! Nice to meet you and can't wait to talk to you!
My name is Stefanie and I just joined the site. I found this site while googleing "dating a med student" and it turned up a lot of rather dismal forcasts. I then found this site and would really like to be a part of it.
A little about me:
I am not yet married to a med student, but its all in the future plans, which is why I started to look into it more. I knew it was going to be hard, but now I am beginning to worry about how hard.
I am currently a student at PSU and my boyfriend of almost three years is a student at UNC. We are in a long distance relationship which is already hard enough, but now med school has been added to the mix which isnt making anything easier. Don't get me wrong I love him and he's worth the wait but its becoming harder. He goes to school and studies sleeps and eats, thats about it and on top of that doesnt feel that he has ten min to spare to focus on our phone conversation. I have heard that this isnt abnormal but it makes me worry. Even when I graduate and move back home to be with him will it even change? Will living together make it at all better? When he is finally a doctor does the amount of work slow down at all? I assume doctors need to continue learning throughout their careers. I guess I am worried about our future, I just don't know if I'm cut out for it, but I would do anything to be with him. Is there anyway of knowing? Does everyone have these thoughts? I really can't imagine my life without him...
So now that you all know my story, Hello! Nice to meet you and can't wait to talk to you!
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