Hi everyone, I joined this forum in hope to find some insider support...
i am the girlfriend to a 1st yr med/psy resident and we are currently coast-to-coast apart. We have been together for a little over 1 year. I plan to move to his state by January next year, but lately things have been very rough and I am starting to have doubts about the move and relationships. The main thing is I am having a very hard time connecting with him (I tried text, call, skype, email...) and often receive little or no response. We usually set up a time to skype every night maybe for 10-15 minutes but he has been missing those too. I want to know if I am asking for too much or if he is just too busy to even send a text to say goodnight?
I am very independent and have my own life in LA, and I have always tried to accommodate his schedule and needs for privacy, despite time zone difference. I have voiced my concerns and needs several times, but nothing has improved much. We got into a fight last night and we had 0 communication since. I am at a lost here and really not sure who can I turn to anymore... none of my friends understand what my boyfriend and I are going thru, and everyone tells me to stop investing...any advice would be really appreciated!
Thank you!!!
i am the girlfriend to a 1st yr med/psy resident and we are currently coast-to-coast apart. We have been together for a little over 1 year. I plan to move to his state by January next year, but lately things have been very rough and I am starting to have doubts about the move and relationships. The main thing is I am having a very hard time connecting with him (I tried text, call, skype, email...) and often receive little or no response. We usually set up a time to skype every night maybe for 10-15 minutes but he has been missing those too. I want to know if I am asking for too much or if he is just too busy to even send a text to say goodnight?
I am very independent and have my own life in LA, and I have always tried to accommodate his schedule and needs for privacy, despite time zone difference. I have voiced my concerns and needs several times, but nothing has improved much. We got into a fight last night and we had 0 communication since. I am at a lost here and really not sure who can I turn to anymore... none of my friends understand what my boyfriend and I are going thru, and everyone tells me to stop investing...any advice would be really appreciated!
Thank you!!!
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