That article assumes all men expect those things of a wife. It assumes, basically, that all men are pigs. It's quite a derogatory collection of assumptions about all men - all husbands.
Well, my husband is much more like Lily's. I do acknowledge that there are probably a whole lot of men that DO fit the stereotype in the article (about men, that is). But, I cannot agree that I want a wife because those stereotypes just do not fit my experience.
I also do not understand why the author of the article holds such resentment towards motherhood. To quote her:
Well, the fact is that the majority of this is just a part of being a full-time parent. Now, if both parents are working then this is definitely an issue that needs to be sorted out. But, for those of us who are parents as our full-time job this is kind of a no-brainer. And, I definitely do NOT resent my job.
The rest of the article is based on the assumption that all men see wives as servants. And, while that has been a battle-cry of the modern "feminist" movement for several decades, it isn't any better than the mysogeny that you can find among some men.
Well, my husband is much more like Lily's. I do acknowledge that there are probably a whole lot of men that DO fit the stereotype in the article (about men, that is). But, I cannot agree that I want a wife because those stereotypes just do not fit my experience.
I also do not understand why the author of the article holds such resentment towards motherhood. To quote her:
I want a wife a wife to keep track of the children's doctor and dentist appointments. And to keep track of mine, too. I want a wife to make sure my children eat properly and are kept clean. I want a wife who will wash the children's clothes and keep them mended. I want a wife who is a good nurturing attendant to my children, who arranges for their schooling, makes sure that they have an adequate social life with their peers, takes them to the park, the zoo, etc. I want a wife who takes care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arranges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, I cannot miss classes at school.
The rest of the article is based on the assumption that all men see wives as servants. And, while that has been a battle-cry of the modern "feminist" movement for several decades, it isn't any better than the mysogeny that you can find among some men.
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