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Originally posted by poky View PostI'm not sure I understand the question. What you quoted was in answer to a very specific question about commuting between Tacoma and Seattle.Veronica
Mother of two ballerinas and one wild boy
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Originally posted by v-girl View PostHour-long commutes? I guess I'm so used to Dallas where so many live in the suburbs and then drive an hour each way for their daily commutes. We never gave a second thought to living 35-40 miles from the med school.Sandy
Wife of EM Attending, Web Programmer, mom to one older lady scaredy-cat and one sweet-but-dumb younger boy kitty
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Interesting. My mom always lived close to work, but she's always worked in the same town that we still live in. The farthest we lived was 10 miles away. Unfortunately, a lot of the better-paying jobs in DFW are in the city. We never ever considered living in Dallas. Or even in Richardson (just north of Dallas). We're in one of the fastest growing counties in the country.Veronica
Mother of two ballerinas and one wild boy
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Jumping in on the mini-hijack... When we lived in Dallas, we decided to live close to the hospital, so DH had a very short commute. However, anything else we did took 45 minutes to get to. There wasn't a really close grocery store - it was about a 20 minute drive - and the closest Wal-Mart was about 30-40 minutes. Most of our friends lived in suburbs, so it was almost an hour drive to go see them. All that to say that if you live in a sprawling city, living close to work doesn't always eliminate the driving.Laurie
My team: DH (anesthesiologist), DS (9), DD (8)
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Originally posted by ladymoreta View PostJumping in on the mini-hijack... When we lived in Dallas, we decided to live close to the hospital, so DH had a very short commute. However, anything else we did took 45 minutes to get to. There wasn't a really close grocery store - it was about a 20 minute drive - and the closest Wal-Mart was about 30-40 minutes. Most of our friends lived in suburbs, so it was almost an hour drive to go see them. All that to say that if you live in a sprawling city, living close to work doesn't always eliminate the driving.
My question is, do you guys often find that the neighborhoods around the hospitals where your DH works to be safer, nicer, and more expensive?Charlene~Married to an attending Ophtho Mudphud and Mom to 2 daughters
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Charlene - There are hookers, drug dealers and homeless people by DH's work. In fact, the main street the goes by the hospitals and university is the same street where I saw a hooker in real life for the first time. You can even rent motel rooms by the hour over there. Yikes!
There are safe, nice neighborhoods not too far away, but residents can't afford them unless they have a spouse who makes a good living.Veronica
Mother of two ballerinas and one wild boy
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Everything v-girl said about Dallas. Our apartment there was really nice - I loved it - but the neighborhood was very scary! A guy was murdered down our hallway, and cars (including mine) were broken into. The complex was gated, but they often left the gate open, and it was a slow gate, so anyone could just follow another car in.
The neighborhood around the hospital in OKC isn't a whole lot better. It's close to the Capitol building, so the politicians have nice homes there, but the rest of the area isn't very safe.Laurie
My team: DH (anesthesiologist), DS (9), DD (8)
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Originally posted by MDPhDWife View PostMy question is, do you guys often find that the neighborhoods around the hospitals where your DH works to be safer, nicer, and more expensive?
The hospital where DH went to med school was in a prestigious, expensive area of DC. But they were affiliated with other hospitals in really not nice parts of town. Lot of variables there.Julia - legislative process lover and general government nerd, married to a PICU & Medical Ethics attending, raising a toddler son and expecting a baby daughter Oct '16.
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Lousy areas for living around the hospitals DH used in Philly and Baltimore. Still, there were areas within 10-15 minutes with public transportation available that were being gentrified. (More than half the housing good, some still rundown. Lower crime. Lots of new things popping up.) We are DIYers so gentrification is are game. We made money on both areas by buying clunkers and fixing them up during the time we were there.
In Boston, the problem was the reverse. The area directly around the hospital was too nice. Beacon Hill! We opted for Brookline because the public schools were good and the T was a ten minute commute to work.Angie
Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)
"Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"
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Originally posted by Sheherezade View PostLousy areas for living around the hospitals DH used in Philly and Baltimore.Event coordinator, wife and therapist to a peds attending
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I think TJU immediate area is OK as is some of the area around CHOP/HUP. At least, it was. I'd imagine things have only gotten better in Philly since we left. We lived in "the great northeast" - a working class neighborhood to the northeast of the city. We bought a row house for pennies and commuted on light rail and trolley. Very safe area - very cheap area - very boring area. FWIW
DH was at Temple. Temple is in North Philly and definitely a no go. There was even an uproar when the residents were forced to park four blocks away. At the time, it was a war zone. Not sure about now.
Baltimore JHU was in another drug culture area with lots of shootings. That said, DH and most of the docs at both Temple and JHU felt they were never targeted for crime - in fact, they felt like they were kind of "safe" because they were the docs at the hospital that patched people up. You'd never live within walking distance though by choice.
For JHU, the closest livable areas would be Fells Point and Canton. We lived in Federal Hill. All these are safe and close to JHU - but public schools are still an issue if your kids are that age.Angie
Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)
"Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"
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San Antonio commutes can be easy (mine is 5 minutes) to brutal (if you lived at 1604 and 281 and had to commute to downtown or the Medical Center.)
There are a ton of neighborhoods out by the Medical Center that are ridiculously affordable. Even now, I live in ostensibly a higher COL area (not one of THE expensive historic neighborhoods but not a cheap-o one either) but even so if my house here were in DC it would be over a million bucks. We have four city lots, a pool, 250 linear feet of front yard, and the house is 3200 square feet. We paid barely over 400k and my commute is 3.7 miles and my husband's is 8 miles. We walk everywhere. And if you're willing to do some work, you can still find historic properties in and around downtown SA for nothing. A smaller house on the street behind mine just sold for 30k. Yes, you read that right.
There's a big Victorian on the street that needs some love but it's going for $259.
The school systems vary in SA- Some are generally pretty good, some, like ours are very neighborhood dependent. The Catholic School System is humongous and there are lots of scholarships available.
As for Pittsburgh, it's climate isn't too dramatic. It gets hot in the summer and cold in the winter (there is snow) but they also have gorgeous spring and fall weather, too. The COL is comparable to San Antonio.
Jenn
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Originally posted by poky View PostI know nothing about Spokane, but would imagine it'd be even easier/cheaper.
On a positive note, yes the cost of living is pretty low there. They do have seasonal summer wild fires which can be kind of freaky (well they did when I lived in eastern washington). I would stick to the west side of the state.Wife to Hand Surgeon just out of training, mom to two lovely kittys and little boy, O, born in Sept 08.
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Baltimore JHU was in another drug culture area with lots of shootings. That said, DH and most of the docs at both Temple and JHU felt they were never targeted for crime - in fact, they felt like they were kind of "safe" because they were the docs at the hospital that patched people up. You'd never live within walking distance though by choice.Charlene~Married to an attending Ophtho Mudphud and Mom to 2 daughters
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