Who does most of the Laundry in your house? (NT)

My husband LOVES to do laundry. And this is a problem, you ask? Yep. He crams the washer so full that a.) the stains don't come out b.) the load gets unbalanced and the washer walks across the room; c.) the machine overflows onto the floor. We got into a huge argument about this--that you can't fill it too full or things don't get clean and I'd be happy to show him the right way. "You mean, YOUR way." he shot back. I explained that there really is a right way, so I'm back to doing the laundry again. Of course, he will run a load if I'm not home to catch him at it--which is evil and passive-aggressive (oppositional-defiant, I think is the correct term.) I'm not sure we NEED to have kids, I think I have enough already!