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  • Deciding what to keep and what to throw

    I apologize in advance. My entire life seems to be revolving around the great Math 2014 purge. I'm having trouble deciding about getting rid of certain things and I need opinions (or a kick in the rear).

    1. My childhood dollhouse. It is broken and has sat at the top of the girls' closet for their entire childhoods. My dad built the bottom level, so I cling to it for that reason alone. It was mine. I loved it. I played with my dollhouse in some form or the other up until high school. I was holding onto it for my daughters but because it's broken, they never got to play with it. My childhood is over. They aren't using it. Toss or keep?

    2. My backpack and books from the 3rd grade. I went to the german elementary school and had a real leather bag and books from the school as well as the notebooks that I wrote in in my own little 3rd grade hand. The leather bag was partially chewed by my beagle 30 years ago. It is degrading and falling apart inside and out. The books all smell musty. But that was my special year. Keep or toss?

    3. German christmas pyramids that I bought when I was living in Germany. Not the best quality and broken/needing to be glued. With that collection, old dollar store nutcrackers. It was all I could afford during my exchange year. They remind me of that wonderful time in my life...but they are sitting in a rubbermaid bin in the garage and aren't nice enough to display.


    Kris
    ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
    ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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    I'm ruthless. I would get rid of it all. Sorry.
    Wife of PGY-4 (of 6), cat herder, and mom to a sassy-pants four-nager.

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    • #3
      I wish I had the time. Is come over and help you purge.

      But use the rule of thumb that if it is broken and you haven't used it in a year, it is likely time to purge.
      Kris

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      • #4
        All of my crap like that needs to fit into 1-2 Rubbermaid totes.
        Kris

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        • #5
          I have my baby blanket, some knick-knacks from Brazil, yearbooks, journals, etc in them.
          Kris

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          • #6
            Take pictures. Maybe keep the books, if they just smell musty but are otherwise fine. The broken and falling-apart stuff, I would take pictures and then toss.
            Sandy
            Wife of EM Attending, Web Programmer, mom to one older lady scaredy-cat and one sweet-but-dumb younger boy kitty

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            • #7
              I love the idea if taking pictures.
              -Ladybug

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              • #8
                Originally posted by poky View Post
                Take pictures. Maybe keep the books, if they just smell musty but are otherwise fine. The broken and falling-apart stuff, I would take pictures and then toss.
                This.

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                Wife and #1 Fan of Attending Adult & Geriatric Psychiatrist.

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                • #9
                  I was thinking pictures too. The memories are precious, but the objects are unfortunately space-taker-uppers.
                  Alison

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                  • #10
                    I'd toss #1, keep #2, and take pics of #3
                    Tara
                    Married 20 years to MD/PhD in year 3 of MFM fellowship. SAHM to five wonderful children (#6 due in August), a sweet GSD named Bella, a black lab named Toby, and 1 guinea pig.

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                    • #11
                      I'd toss all.
                      Wife to Hand Surgeon just out of training, mom to two lovely kittys and little boy, O, born in Sept 08.

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                      • #12
                        Okay, what about this:

                        1. Rubbermaid container full of wooden train track/train (saving for grandkids)
                        2. Rubbermaid container full of Little People (saving for grandkids)
                        3. Rubbermaid container full of bits and pieces of playmobil (saving for grandkids)

                        I could take them to once upon a child or ... save them for grandkids

                        ETA: I love the picture idea. I also think I'm going to ask my dad's permission to throw away the dollhouse...let him know how much it has meant to me, etc.
                        ~Mom of 5, married to an ID doc
                        ~A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

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                        • #13
                          I'd take a picture of the dollhouse, frame it, and put it on the wall. Then your dad will know how special it was to you. You don't need his (or anyone's) permission to toss something that is cluttering your life and stressing you out.
                          Wife to PGY4 & Mother of 3.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by PrincessFiona View Post
                            Okay, what about this:

                            1. Rubbermaid container full of wooden train track/train (saving for grandkids)
                            2. Rubbermaid container full of Little People (saving for grandkids)
                            3. Rubbermaid container full of bits and pieces of playmobil (saving for grandkids)

                            I could take them to once upon a child or ... save them for grandkids
                            It depends. How big are these containers, and do you have room for them? If they're not huge, and you have room in an out of the way space, and they're completely contained, and the stuff inside is in decent shape (not broken or dirty, and relatively complete), then go ahead and keep it. However, don't set your heart on grandkids falling in love with them and playing with them all the time and wanting to keep them for their kids, etc. It may not happen. If keeping them means that you'll be heartbroken if things don't work out the way you're envisioning, then take advantage of your clean-out momentum and give them away now.
                            Sandy
                            Wife of EM Attending, Web Programmer, mom to one older lady scaredy-cat and one sweet-but-dumb younger boy kitty

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                            • #15
                              And yeah, don't ask permission; that's the way to crazy-town.
                              Sandy
                              Wife of EM Attending, Web Programmer, mom to one older lady scaredy-cat and one sweet-but-dumb younger boy kitty

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