I really need someone input. My dh and I are getting married in two weeks. We had talked about kids and decided to have them right away because of my age. He then talked to his best friend. She told him he should wait two years until the first two years of med school are over. I did not like it but I agree. I did not tell him what it made me feel. I felt like he made this decision with her not me. I let it go. My family knew we were going to have kids right away and I told my sister tonight! She had a fit, worried for me that I won't get a chance if I wait! If we wait for this will we keep waiting, she sees that I am giving up everything and he nothing. I told her it was OUR decision and did not let her know about the situation but it brought it back up for me and now I feel anger and hurt.
It feels like he made this decision without me, and I keep remembering something that has nothing to do with, that during our Valentines lunch, she called and he spoke with her instead of telling her to call back. She is med school so understands him in a way I never will, but .... I don't want to feel like she has more say in the important decisions in my life than I do. btw he starts med school in Aug.
Help me through this one guys. I am feeling such anger and hurt towards him right now and this is something that happened a month ago.
Cheryl
It feels like he made this decision without me, and I keep remembering something that has nothing to do with, that during our Valentines lunch, she called and he spoke with her instead of telling her to call back. She is med school so understands him in a way I never will, but .... I don't want to feel like she has more say in the important decisions in my life than I do. btw he starts med school in Aug.
Help me through this one guys. I am feeling such anger and hurt towards him right now and this is something that happened a month ago.
Cheryl
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