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so now that the dust has settled (Match Day Question)

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  • so now that the dust has settled (Match Day Question)

    ....how happy are you with your partner's Match?

    Give us a # with 10 being elated and 1 being "still crying in my beer."

    All you vets can play too -- mine would definitely be a 10!!!
    Flynn

    Wife to post training CT surgeon; mother of three kids ages 17, 15, and 11.

    “It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” —Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets " Albus Dumbledore

  • #2
    Mine was 7.5

    His was 5

    Jenn

    PS- now he's very glad but at the time, he really wanted to go to Hawaii.

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    • #3
      I think 10 for both times. Or maybe 8 for the first because it just didn't have the stress factor of the second. The second match earned that 10!

      Oh, am I happy that we won't be going through the match again. (I would say "never" but would hate to jinx myself).

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      • #4
        I would say 2 for him and 5 for me. I was ok with any of the choices, as all of them were in NYC, he was unhappy because he got #5.

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        • #5
          We're both a 10. DH did an away rotation at Maine Med last November and since I went out to visit him I've missed it quite a bit. We've been looking at houses online since even before Match Day, and we're going out in less than a week to (hopefully) buy.

          We couldn't be happier.

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          • #6
            I think 8. There was no one perfect place that had everything we wanted, our top two each sort of had 50%. We're pretty happy with what we got, but there are some negatives we'll have to adjust to, as well.
            Married to a hematopathologist seven years out of training.
            Raising three girls, 11, 9, and 2.

            “That was the thing about the world: it wasn't that things were harder than you thought they were going to be, it was that they were hard in ways that you didn't expect.”
            Lev Grossman, The Magician King

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            • #7
              In hindsight we are both 10's. But at the time he was a 10 and I was a 7 just because I'd never been here and I knew it was cold. Now we love it, its a great program and its nice to be closer to family!
              Wife to NSG out of training, mom to 2, 10 & 8, and a beagle with wings.

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              • #8
                We're getting over it now, but I think we we're both about 3s when we found out. Of course it may all be peachy when we actually get there and all.
                Mom of 3, Veterinarian

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                • #9
                  He probably would have said a 10 because he got in to a program he didn't think he had a chance with....

                  I was more like a 6 because I had no prospects in the city and hadn't considered moving there. Of course, it was close to my grandmother with early stage Alzheimer's (who needed help) and I had a new baby so it all worked out. It was just a surprise. Good training for the rest of residency!
                  Angie
                  Gyn-Onc fellowship survivor - 10 years out of the training years; reluctant suburbanite
                  Mom to DS (18) and DD (15) (and many many pets)

                  "Where are we going - and what am I doing in this handbasket?"

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                  • #10
                    I would say a 9 for me and a 10 for him. I was hoping for a little cheaper location, but am super happy to be returning to nyc. I think the stress involved in relocating and financial burden deserves a point taken away
                    Wife to Hand Surgeon just out of training, mom to two lovely kittys and little boy, O, born in Sept 08.

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                    • #11
                      Me: 9
                      Him: 9

                      As far as the military not allowing a fellowship (when he ALREADY had been accepted in a spot): Me: 2 Him: 3 (with 5 being neutral and 10 so ecstatic you're wetting yourself justl to define the perimeters ).
                      Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
                      With fingernails that shine like justice
                      And a voice that is dark like tinted glass

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                      • #12
                        Me: 5... I really wanted our second pick (San Francisco), but was ready for a change of pace anywhere but the desert. DH: 7...It wasn't the top, but before our "at least we will match here." Honestly, I think he was just releieved that he matched in hi speciality. He met a few docs on the interview trail who were trying to match for their second or third time and it shook him pretty hard.
                        Gwen
                        Mom to a 12yo boy, 8yo boy, 6yo girl and 3yo boy. Wife to Glaucoma specialist and CE(everything)O of our crazy life!

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                        • #13
                          Probably an 8 from both of us. Hawaii to Texas wasn't what we had in mind, but we did rank it 3rd because the program had so much to offer him for training & research opportunities. Arizona was our first choice and Nevada was 2nd.

                          I'm not estatic, but I'm happy. I wanted to leave Hawaii (to experience living on the mainland), so I got that wish granted. I'll take it and make the most of this opportunity. =)

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                          • #14
                            We are a 10!!

                            I can't wait to go home! I can't wait for seasons! I can't wait to live by my family again! And the program is supposed to be great too!
                            Cranky Wife to a Peds EM in private practice. Mom to 5 girls - 1 in Heaven and 4 running around in princess shoes.

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                            • #15
                              It was a 10 for him at first, and maybe a 6 for me. Two years later, it is probably a 6 for him ( but it could be just burnout) and an 8 for me. This place has been good to us, and has definitely grown on me.
                              Mom to three wild women.

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