If we can distract her or trick her to leaving that does seem to work sometimes. I can't always figure out the trick though. Today nothing worked. She doesn't seem to care if we are going someone fun at the next place. Today I thought it would help if I told her where we were going because that has sort of helped in her the past. I also tried telling her today 1. we are about to leave and go bye-bye, ok 2. we have one minute left and its time to go. Its not sinking in with her. Or she's ignoring me? Or she doesn't understand? I'm not sure.
She's lay on the floor, look right at me say Get Up! Don't do that! I'll pretend to walk away and she's say Bye-Bye and start getting sad. She's saying the things I just about to say to her right before I can get it out. To me that means she understands no to do these things. But I don't know for sure.
I feel like if she understood the system of coming and going we wouldn't have so many problems. I just don't know what system to use or how to communicate it to her. MrsK said the other day she sings a song and at the end of the song its time to do something else. I feel like a fool singing ABC's in the store to get her to leave without throwing herself on the floor. I feel like I'm being held hostage by a nearly 3 yr old and I hate this.
She cried really hard but went we did get home I put her right down for a nap and told her she couldn't watch TV.
She's lay on the floor, look right at me say Get Up! Don't do that! I'll pretend to walk away and she's say Bye-Bye and start getting sad. She's saying the things I just about to say to her right before I can get it out. To me that means she understands no to do these things. But I don't know for sure.
I feel like if she understood the system of coming and going we wouldn't have so many problems. I just don't know what system to use or how to communicate it to her. MrsK said the other day she sings a song and at the end of the song its time to do something else. I feel like a fool singing ABC's in the store to get her to leave without throwing herself on the floor. I feel like I'm being held hostage by a nearly 3 yr old and I hate this.
She cried really hard but went we did get home I put her right down for a nap and told her she couldn't watch TV.
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